I need help with sister problems?

Question

I have a older sister. She can be really mean to me and we fight a lot. She annoyes me all the time. Sometimes I even feel like I hate her but I proberly don't mean it. She makes me cry nearly every day. I have tried talking to her but it won't work. Please help me?

Answer 1

1)Tell your parents that it's serious.

2)Tell a counselor or psychiatrist.

3)Ignore her.

Answer 2

I have the same problem I tryed talking to my parents but nothing .all you can do is be the bigger person.

Answer 3

people usually bully others (including and sometimes especially siblings) to make themselves feel better. I say ignore her and don't let her see that she is hurting you. I guarantee that she'll stop eventually when she doesn't get the reaction she expects. remember that you are stronger for not reciprocating this behavior and move on. just b/c they are family does not mean you have to take the abuse. just remember you don't abuse her and she probably enjoys that. don't play her game, win at your own by just ignoring her. maybe even write her off until she decides to mature and realize that sisters are supposed to be best friends.

Answer 4

quit being such a sissy...that's family love. she's makin you tougher. just don't cry around and take her c**p. be just as mean to her as she is to you.  

Answer 5

You will grow out of this when you are 14.

Answer 6

What can I say? All I  know is love conquers all.Remember that is your sister and she is probably doing it for attention maybe not. I think you have to be the example by just humbling yourself.

she will Love you more as you both get older and look back at all of this mess. this will pass as time goes by.Remember Love her no matter what! ok?

Answer 7

Have you heard the old saying, you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar?  It's true with people to.  It takes two people to argue

and if you just ignore her and don't argue back, she will finally get tired of arguing to herself and quit.

That should work but if for some reason it doesn't, tell your parents.  I know people don't like to be tattle tales but there are those time when you can't solve the problem yourself and need help.  

If she says something mean to you, just say "I hope that remark made you feel better" and walk away.  Bit your tongue but don't say anything mean to her and don't argue or fight.

Show her that you can be a bigger person than she is.

Blessings  

Answer 8

I want to ask you a few things first...Well were you guys friends before and then you moved on to have friends outside more. She might be trying to get your attention. I know you have tried talking to her. But you pester her to leak out what she's hiding and why she's doing this. That will clear up a bit. Then you can consult your parents what to do...

Answer 9

You can tell your parents about it, but honestly all sister are like that I have seven and I don't get along with most of them.