I need help with socializing.?!!?

Question

whenever some girl talks to me i get really nerveous and cant concentrate especially the ones i have a crush on..lol...how to do i get rid of this?

Answer 1

Try to find a girl with similar shy issues. . . and perhaps the two of you can become friends and then you will both be more at ease dealing with the opposite s*x.

Also, try to focus on things that you don't get nervous about. Talk about similar interests.

Chances are the girls are just as nervous as you are!

Answer 2

That's not a socialization problem--that's just a normal thing people go through lol..

It's mind over matter. When you're talking to someone you have a crush on you're probably trying really hard not to say something stupid or do something stupid because you want to impress them.

Honestly, I don't think you ever get over it unless you're super cocky and could care less what people think of you. Just remember that usually things that seem hard are not as hard as you think they are. It's all in your head most of the time.

Answer 3

Just breath, relax, stay calm, they won't bite, unless you tell them too, just be yourself.

Answer 4

Don't think of anyone as anything more than a person. That's all people are under what label's they collect in life. There only people. Don't take things to seriously. Chill out & have fun, things will happen how they are meant to happen.

Answer 5

I don't know.... I still had this problem in my mid-twenties when I met the man who is now my husband... I think its universal when you like someone.  After you get to know them better you will feel more relaxed though.

Answer 6

You do not have a problem, this is normal. Everyone gets nervous when around their "crush". Just take a breath and relax, if you do goof up it will be alright and you will live. We all goof up sometimes. Just be yourself, girls like that.

Good luck!

Answer 7

try not to be to shy and lots of people have this problem.

Answer 8

Just listen and respond, girls like that.

The HARD part is when they DON'T TALK TO YOU and YOU have to make the first move!

Duh!

As long as they keep talking to you, you are making progress.

Keep your answers short, positive, nodd, agree and take her side.