I need help with something about my girlfriend... please!!!!!!

Question

ok so i have a girl friend that got out of a relationship about 2 mounths ago ... (she broke up with him) and i asked her on 4 defforent occations if she was ready to date agian, and if she was over her x and we hit it hard. she said she was so i asked her out.. but her x keeps texting her telling her he wants her back and she keeps saying to him "no i just want to be friends" ... i asked her if she wants me to talk to him and she said if it happens again to talk to him... but he invited her to a movie with her best friend and his best friend so there were 4 people (not me, i was not invited) and she went.. WHAT SHOULD I DO???... IM SCARED HE IS GOING TO TRY TO TAKE HER AWAY AND SHE WILL FALL FOR HIM AGAIN. can someone please help me i feel so helpless and i like this girl ALOT!!

Answer 1

No one can takr a person from anyone,if she's going to go with him.You can't stop her.And if she wasn't interested in her ex she wouldn't be going to the movie with either.It was too soon getting into a relationship on her part anyway.She's not over that guy.

Answer 2

The best thing you can do is let her know you really care for her. Then comes the hard part and that is to give her, her space, talk when she wants, call her IF she wants you to but do not be pushy or act needy. She will respect your attitude and maybe see what she would miss out on if she decided on the other guy. Ultimately she will decide, you or him, do not chase her away by smothering her or seeming needy. And for you, if she decides on the other guy, there are other girls as well. When you said you feel so helpless and scared, that is not a good sign, think about it.

Answer 3

Well you can like love or what ever all you want but this girl is a user so my advice it's time to move on..........

Answer 4

wut the h**l? are u insecure. if this girl realy likes u, she won't leave u for no one. don't worry bout it. just tell this dude to leave her alone. now if he's bigger than u, take some of ur friends with u to back u up. ask her if she still like him. if she says no. don't worry.

Answer 5

I agree with perfectp there if you set her free leave her alone and she comes back GOOD... if she goes back to jerkface you don't need her anyway.... Your better than that and deserve better from a girl

Answer 6

Let her go, no matter how much it hurts you at the time. You can find someone that can be true to you!  If she will break up with her x then later go to the movies with him then do you not think she is playing you just like she is playing him. You'll find the right love down the right just give it time.

Answer 7

Not to hurt ya, but don't keep wasting your time.

You know the old saying.." If you love something , set it free, if it comes back it was meant to be"

meaning shine her on  and see what happens. That means NO calling and NO texting..K?  Can you do it till Monday?  I bet ya she calls and says whats up...and you say ..oh I thought you might be at 'whats his names ' house.

You don't want to be used. I am sure if you open your eyes and look around there is someone just waiting for ya and that  won't play games with your heart..