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Question

Well i have recently saw the ruins which got me really intrested with joe anderson. I am only a 12 year old girl and he is 26. But i seriously think i am in love with him. I know you think i am to young to be in love but there will always be someone better than you so you cant be truly in love when ur married!! so look him up. he is gorgoeus. I have been watching his movies at home for three days in a row. I need to know what i should do. Should i try to meet him somehow? I NEED HELP. i am listening to one of his songs from across the universe. he played max.Also luke in silence becomes you. And marthius or whatever in the ruins. The guy that gets his legs cut off. AN I HAVE WATCHED NUMEROUS INTERVIEWS TO KNOW WHAT HE IS LIKE. help!!!

Answer 1

You know what, he's just your crush. Nothing else. Love is not there. Its only infatuation that exists with what you felt.

Answer 2

You are still young to be in love, my girl.....  I guess, this is only a puppy love... just enjoy the feeling....it's a part of teen's life....I  experienced  that feeling too... I love the boy next door who is 25 and I was 13 year old.  And they call it a puppy love...  there will be more puppies to be love. When you reach the right age you will  love a man of your dream.....Gudluck!

Answer 3

don't be upset from me, but belive me u r still young & there is too much age difference, I used to have a crush on a singer too, i watched each & every interview he did, i had all his albums & all his photos, I collected everything about him & thought that we'll get married someday, but all of this is just nice dreams for the age i was & u're in now, belive me, as time goes on by u'll find yr true love & may be he will be all things oposit to the one you are fallin for now & u'll worship him

enjoy your age & your fantasis but be sure this is temporary

Answer 4

i know what you are feeling, i used to feel like i loved someone that i saw through the tv or what not.  You may yearn for him and even cry if you meet him in person.  what you are feeling is a HUGE HUGE crush.  

It's nice to have crushes, it's normal for girls around your age to have these crushes.  But dont misunderstand, it's not love in the adult sense.  Enjoy your crush!  I havent had a huge crush for a few years now ;p

Answer 5

Sweetie, you are only 12 years old!! You don't have a problem. Alot of young people have CRUSHES on actors, its normal! What is not normal is when you try to start that stalking stuff. Anyways, you don't even know what love is yet. Be a child and don't rush looking for boys. They will be on this earth until the end of time. You are still in middle school. How are your grades? That is what you need to be concentrating on.Even if you met him,(years later) I guarantee you he wouldn't want a dummie.Always remember this piece of advice(you say yeh right) Everything that looks good is not always good for you.Looks can be decieving.You want to always judge a person from how they are on the inside(as in their personality) and not strictly on whats on the outside. I know that matters, but don't get caught up totally on looks.

Answer 6

It is called a crush. You will get that alot. It is as the first person told you. That is the correct advise. You can of course always just do normal fan mail. But that is where it will stay. Sorry. :(

Answer 7

hes not bad but hun i've seen plenty of hotter boys!

sorry to be the bubble breaker but your 12 years old and hes 26 thats 14yrs difference! And its illegal- so I doubt he would have any interest! did you take notice that hes in a relationship or something?

maybe try looking for guys that look like or have similar characteristics like joe anderson.

but if you have the time go ahead and look him up and try and contact him! I've been through the same phase before where i was actually in love with an actor but its unrealistic and its important not to get hurt over something thats not real