I need help with this problem with my grandma.?

Question

My grandma is a big crab. everything thatyou leave around she crabs at you for. what should i do. she always is happy around this other dude, but when she is around her own grandchildren she is a crab. I just need help. And advice is extremely appreciated.

Answer 1

This is just how grandmas are and they wont change they are set in there ways try to get on her good side don't do the things that make her mad think why shes nice to the other person and do the things hes doing

Answer 2

MY FATHER RAISED MY SON, OK, HE IS NOW 83 YEARS OLD, HE WANTS THINGS SOO NEAT AND NICE, AND WHEN SOMETHING IS OUT OF PLACE HE GOES BESERK, HERES HOW I HANDLED IT, I WAS NO NEAT AND TIDY MYSELF, SOO HERES HOW I HANDLED IT, I WOKE UP ON PURPOSE ONE DAY I HATED IT, I WOKE UP ON PURPOSE ON A SAT MADE MY SON GET UP AT 430 AM, AND WE CLEANED THE WHOLE HOUSE, JUST AS HE LIKES IT, I SCRUBED THE FLOORS I DUSTED , I CLEANED , HE DID OUTSIDE , WE HAD THE PLACE **** AND SPAN, SOOO, WHEN HE WOKE UP HE WAS DELIGHTED, AND THEN WE TOOK HIM OUT FOR DINNER AFTER THAT, WHEN HE WAS GETTING READY , HE ACCIDENTLY SPILLED HIS WINE ON OUR NICE CLEAN FLOOR, IT WAS HIS FAULT, AND WE YELLEDE AT HIM FOR IT, HE SAID OOPPPS, AND HE YELLED AT HIMSELF, THEN WE LAUGHED IIT OFF,  YOU JUST NEED TO ADD A LITTLE TIME AND PAIENCE WITH YOUR GRANMA, AND MAKE THINGS RIGHT

Answer 3

Grandma's are weird that way. Because of many of the hormone changes grandma's start to become MUCH more dominate and the 'matriarch' of the family. They actually start to have money of the traits and behaviors of dominate males ..

*BUT* anyway .... your grandma likely has health problems, is lonely and just wants to make sure you guys do 'okay'

When grandma's are 'nagging' (or crabbing) about everything thing it's often, but not also, because there's a reason for it and she just wants to make sure they her daughters children do they best they can ..

*OR* She's just turned into a B*t*h ... that doesn't mean you have to stop loving her. You can love the person she was and the mother she raised without loving what she does ...

Even if she's miserable still give her the company, she almost certainly wants, and put up with it. Your grandma isn't going to be around for ever..

You can almost certainly find things to do and to talk about that lighten her up and get her happy and talking again !

Remember she's not going to be around forever so enjoy the time you have left with her, even if it doesn't seem all that enjoyable now, you'll still remember them with fond memories when she was passed on - and will encourage your kids to visit your mom too - even if she's terribly cranky

Answer 4

Crab? Other dude?

Answer 5

My grandfather was the same way, and I used to be scared of him.  The older I got the more I understood that the reason behind his attitude was because he was ill.  It is said that we are meanest to the ones we love, because we trust them to keep our secret.  I would just hold out, and put up with it, because the problem is probably just her aches and pains.  She just needs love and support.