I need help within 3 hours!!!! Please!!?

Question

Ok this is retarded buy oh well. my sister is in the 3rd grade and is 9 years old. But she still uses a pacifier (binky) to go to sleep. Today she got invited to a sleepover and she really wants to go but she dosent wanna tell her friend about her binky. so what should she do?

Answer 1

act as tho its a fade..its cool to do..or use her thumb..good luck

Answer 2

Maybe she can take a stuffed doll or something.

She really needs to get off it though.. it can mess up her teeth and she is old enough to get over it. She will be fine with out it for one night and then maybe she can move past it.

Answer 3

Maybe she can take it with her, not use it and just keep it hidden.  My sister had a stuffed rabbit that she took everywhere.  When she was 18 and spending the night at my house she still had her flattened, grubby, barely recognizable toy rabbit, hidden between her feet while she slept.  It wasn't hurting anything and I didn't make an issue of it.  I assume she'll grow out of it someday or the toy will totally fall apart.  Your sister will do the same with the pacifier.  You should suggest to her, though, that she not show it to the other girls at the sleepover.  I think they would make fun of her.

Answer 4

tell her she needs to try to wean off  the pacifier before the sleepover and send it to the pacifier fairy it worked on Super Nanny.

Answer 5

tie the pacifier to a doll and pretend it is for her dolly or stuffed animal, help her to feel comfortable knowing she has it with her, but can make the night without actually using it!

Answer 6

Either starts growing up, leave the binky at home, or let everyone know what a big baby she is so they can mock ridicule and reject her with jokes and other assorted torments.Her choice.Her binky is NOT something she cannot live without, it is something she chooses NOT to live without.So the question is now, does she want a NORMAL life , or a binky?

Answer 7

put it on a string and put it around her dolls neck or a teddy bear , at 9 yrs old the other kids will have a doll or bear or something  and noone will no it is for her

Answer 8

i think she should lose the binky because kids get addicted to those things......i used to suck my thumb until i was 9 or 10 years old and i got over it when people started to make fun of me. And i have a friend who still sucks her thumb and shes 14.You should tell her to stop because its only going to get worse and if she does take it her friends will probably make fun of her and its horrible:(

Answer 9

Get rid of the binky! You should have done that a LONG time ago.

Answer 10

lose binky.. perfect oppourtunity..

Answer 11

thats a tough one- can she suck her thumb instead??       sorry i cant be more helpful!

Answer 12

Stay home or wean herself from the pacifier.

Its bad for her teeth, her self image, and her public image, so I would suggest throwing the pacifier in the garbage.

Answer 13

If she cant sleep at all without this binky then she should either tell her friends and trust them but if not then she should try to sleep without it or make an excuse up to her friends and miss the sleep over.