I need more answers!!!!

Question

I asked this last night, but I only got 3 answers and I need more.....

okay, so this is gonna sound kinda weird, but I would like answers, so....

Okay, so I give my boyfriend hand jobs and stuff, right?

Well, he sounds like he likes it and stuff (moaning loud and all that.)

I just cant seem to get him to c.u.m.

And one night, he said kinda to himself "come on, why aren't I coming?" while I was giving him one...

He tells me he's close, and then like.....a couple minutes later, he's like dont worry about it...

I mean when I do it he kinda gets wet.....

I dont get it...

Are there any tips that you can give me that will make him c.u.m?

Cause I really want him to.....

Honest answers, please...

Experience, known tips, etc.

Thank you!

:O)

Answer 1

try a bj

Answer 2

Go slow and use a good lubricant, take your time at first and message him gently, take time and talk to him about what he likes, it's always different to be on the receiving end of something you are used to doing for your self, And kudos to you for practicing a safe but pleasurable manner of s*x, best of luck

Answer 3

well why dont you try sucking him off

Answer 4

first and foremost ASK him what he likes like what does he do when he m*********s to come wierd but true thats what my gf did she's like what do u like i told her nd she did it i came that way cuz i had the same problem when u are recieving it ur not in control idk if ur blowing him or what but that usally gets a guy just a hj it takes longer and if he's moaning go faster faster he'll come usally cuz if he's close start speeding up that usally works Good luck

Answer 5

Your bf is having delayed ejaculation, probably because of the stress and distraction of being with another person, and the pressure to perform.  This is a common experience with inexperienced young men.  The same thing happened to me in some of my earliest experiences with others.

He gets wet while you're doing it because he likes the sensation.  You're not doing it wrong.  One thing you could try is to m********e him until he's ready to come, and let him finish himself, using his own familiar technique.  This removes some of the pressure and lets him employ his own knowledge about what brings him off best.  There may still be some delay, so be patient.  You might need to work up to it, starting by leaving the room while he climaxes, then being in the room but on the other side, then real close, and finally getting him to climax in your hand.  (Not all in the same visit of course!)  Let him know that you've found out that this is a common problem and it just takes time and patience to overcome.  His knowledge that you're understanding and willing to work with him will help him relax and c.u.m.

And let me add my encouragement to the other answerer for practicing mutual masturbation with your boyfriend.  It's a pretty safe s*x practice, with low risk of passing disease or getting pregnant.  A wise choice at this stage of your life, and something you can have a lot of fun with, without employing more risky techniques.  And I hope you're masturbating and getting your enjoyment too.  Not only will that make it more fun for you, it will also teach your boyfriend what makes girls feel good!

To "****" - she spelled in c.u.m so the online censor wouldn't edit it - not because the thinks it's an acronym.

Answer 6

Tell your boyfriend you want him to m********e while you watch.

Than watch how he does it, a guy always knows how to get himself off.

Observe everything, i.e. how hard or soft he grips his p***s, what areas he pays more attention to etc.

Find out also what his erogenous zones are, if he'll tell you.

Some guys like there butt's played with others like there perineum massaged (the area between the testicles and the butt hole).

Guys will always tell you what they like, "if" you are listening.

One word of advice, don't be a chatter-box in the bedroom.  Stay focused on the situation at hand and don't talk too much.  Some woman for some reason think during s*x is the perfect time to talk.  

On a funnier note, when a woman opens her mouth in the bedroom it shouldn't be to talk hahahaha

Answer 7

We all come up dry sometimes.  As long as he enjoys it (he seems to from your description), don't sweat it.

He might also want to lay off on masturbating for a few days before you are going to fool around.  While we guys are s***n machines, we do run out sometimes.  And along the same lines, if we haven't come in a while, it usually comes out hard and strong.

Answer 8

If he's cool on stopping, it's ok.  It's cool that you care to make him shoot it harder, but he may not.  Maybe the wetness is about what is normal, but he doesn't really want to say that.

Also, the process is pleasurable, so it's all cool.

Hey, you didn't mention what he's doing for you...I hope you're getting equal, but safe, time.

As you talk about it, maybe he can tell you how to turn your hand, or will be willing to take over and make it happen...  lubrication helps a lot.

There might not be a clear finish line on this...it varies.  If he's happy, and you're happy,   that's all good.

Answer 9

*** isnt an acronym stupid ***.