I need opinions plz....a lil long - sorry?

Question

so em and my BF broke up a month ago and for a while he was texting me how much he misses me and that we just needed time to fix certain things that broke apart the relationship (fighting). i was a complete ***** to him and acted like i didnt care and then when i realized i was bein an idiot and i DO care i started texting him how much i care about him and miss him, etc and now he isn;t talking to me anymore. he said i was freaking him out and he needed time. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN??? also, one of his friends said that she thinks he's over me (in a month??) thats quick to get over soemone you spent a year and a half with and planned to marry one day.

but anyway he also texted me stuff like he doesnt talk to his friends about us and who cares what they think anyway and he also admitted to masking how upset he really is...

im so confused......do i just give up? i havent texted him in days and even tho its killing me i want to give him his space and not "freak him out"...

how do you get over someone that you know in your heart you are meant to be with? :(

Answer 1

Let me tell u what  i think hes thinking right now

i guess he loves u but now

its like the gal who didn't want him now wants him ...........who knows if she wont leave him again?

As u behaved like u dont care, it sure did upset him

text him ...."ok m givin u space..................take ur time...........i will wait forever.........call me whenever u feel like we can talk "

but dont stop textin without sayin anything lest he thinks u changed ur mind again ,n 4gt him

say u r givin him space................

when theres a prob in relationship , i advise talk on anythin but relationship 4 some time...........cuz talkin is necessary.......

n then when u both feel like it ,sort all those things that resulted in the break up............

do u really love him?If u do.......then why r u askin if u shud wait.............ofcourse u shud.

give him his time...........he really needs to think....dont freak him out..........

everything will turn out okk  

Answer 2

You are looking at it all wrong mama, you need to "heal" and by having any communication with an ex delays the healing process.

He is out there trying to figure out what he needs in life and trust me girl he does miss you but life has taken a twist and he's learning to adjust without you. It's good to make sure that your life does not revolve around someone else, first love you then love others...

I say;

Don't text him. Try hard to give him his space. Then gradually maybe after a month, send him a text and say "hey you, just wanted to check in on you see how your doing, we are still friends aren't we?"

Then hopefully little by little with a communication and patience you will learn to live with out him or he will realize he can't live with out you, because you will show him how you have matured and how things will be different, better.

"good thing come to those who wait"

Answer 3

Seeing as you were horrible and acted like you don't care, and now you do care, he is probably confused because he is getting mixed messages.  You two just aren't being radically honest with each other about your feelings and motives.  You need to sit down together and do this, or you will continue playing guessing games based on each other's reactions.

Answer 4

well a month is certainly enough to get over someone you've only spent a year and a half w/ he might not be masking how upset he is and is actually being honest. I think by saying that "you're freaking him out" he meant that you acted kinda bipolar by acting all *****y to him and then saying how much you care for him c**p c**p c**p. well, guys usually hold grudges so he's not gonna let it go for a while! good luck though, and I hope it works out!