I need parent advice on a relationship

Question

my moms not here with me now and i wanted to know if 14 was a good age to start having s*x and how do u kiss a boy ur tottaly in love with

Answer 1

I would say that 14 is too young to be having s*x already.  Kissing is one thing but s*x is a whole different thing.  wait and be careful

Answer 2

no wait till your 15 or 16 and open mouth with a little tounge

Answer 3

i would wait, trust me on this! once you lose your virginity, you wish in the end that you would have waited. plus when you and your boyfriend break up, he will tell his friends and itll get around school, i wouldnt do it if i were you

Answer 4

14 is too young to have s*x, so I'd advise against it.

Answer 5

14 is too young to start having s*x because you cannot deal properly with the emotions that come along with having s*x. wait a few more years...you will definitely be happy you did. the guy you are totally in love with will probably change after you give it up, and the consequences of having s*x at a young age are too many for you to handle at this point in your life...trust me, you will regret it if you have s*x now!!

Answer 6

Kissing--Fine

s*x--Not fine at 14. You need to wait until you are ready, and responsible enough to handle the possibility of an unplanned pregnancy.

Always use protection and seek a physicians assistance in contraceptive management.

Answer 7

Your too young is what she would probably say,

and if you dont know how to kiss right....you SHOULDN'T HAVE s*x!!!

i started at 14 and i should have waited

Answer 8

14 isnot a good age to have s*x.

no no no.

when youre in love iwth them you can wait.

Answer 9

your growing and to you fourteen is the age you feel like you need to start so what i would say is do it if you really think your in love. just be careful.

Answer 10

If I had a daughter even thinking about s*x at age 14, i would be devastated and would wonder how badly I had been bringing her up. If you don't know how to kiss a boy then you are FAR too young to be even thinking about s*x.

Answer 11

14 is way way too youing to be having s*x! You should wait until you are at LEAST 16, 17. There is a huge maturity level you are missing when you are 14, and it is not a good idea to become sexually adventerous at that age. However Id say that you are okay to kiss. But that is it. I mean, you are at the age where you like boys, and you are curous. So by all means, kiss, hold hands, have group dates, but do not do anything past that line. Your not ready for that.

Answer 12

No, 14 is not a good age. You WILL regret it. My best advice is to wait until you are married, but with teens these days its not always the advice they want to hear. If you really do, make sure you use protection, and wait until your just a bit older. And kissing, there really is no instructions, just let it come naturally. Try going out to the movies with the guy, and give him a hug goodnight, and when u start to pull away, just kiss him.

Answer 13

um no 14 is WAY TO YOUNG to have s*x..u don't want to end up pregnant..do you? i would definatly wait until ur married..im only 16 and im still a virgin .. follow my example

Answer 14

no i don't think 14 is a good age for s*x. there are so many things that can go wrong. the condom could break, you could forget to take the pill, or the pill might not work. you'll have to worry about a pregnancy. most likely your boyfriend won't stick around to help you raise the kid.

plus there are so many std's out there. they can cause infertility (you won't be able to have a child), cancer, lots of pain and even death.

s*x is a special thing and you want your first time to be right.

i'm waiting till i'm married to have s*x, but it's up to you.

i hope you make a good choice.

Answer 15

If you cannot support a child then you are not ready.

At 14 you still require someone to support you and no birth control is 100 percent.  I am not your mother, so I don't have the emotional stake she would have.  Take my answer and put a billion tears to it, a billion wishes of your future and happiness..and maybe then you would know what your mother would want.

Answer 16

if i was your mother id slap you in the face your waaaaayyyy to young kiss him all you want just dont do the dirty deed

Answer 17

if you haven't even kissed him, then you're definitely not ready for s*x. plus, 14 is way too young to be having s*x.

Answer 18

Don't do it.  It is not just because of your age.  s*x is a very, very special thing.  The first time is extremely special.  Once you give that away, you will never get it back.  Don't throw it away on some boy you may never see again after high school.  Besides there are consequences for having s*x outside of marriage.  Our society tries to make us think that there aren't, but it isn't true.  Once you release the emotions and feelings that come with s*x, you will never again be able to contain them.  Wait until you are married to that one forever friend and soul-mate.  Believe me, you will never regret it.  

Answer 19

LMFAO!

okay...i know alot of people are having s*x at 14...and thats there problem.

yes...s*x...is good...lol

and..im a guy...but if i were your mom..i would call you a r****d!

14 is way too young.

more than half the people who are saying they arent a virgin that are younger than 15 or so...are lying! they just say that because they think there cool.

wait till your atleast 16, because if you have s*x now, you'll regret it...AND...your probably gunna end up breaking up with him later, which will make it harder. because 14 is just way too young.

and your going to have to take a chance of..getting pregnent...std's..ect.

Answer 20

As a young Mother that I am, No, Its not a good age, I lost my virginity at 15, And to this day I regret it. I got pregnant at 15, I love my daughter to death but going to school pregnant is no fun, People talk about you and so do teachers. And once you have s*x, He may use a condom that time, But after that, He'll talk you into not using one, He'll tell you you'll be together forever, Or he'll put out when he ejaculates, He'll feed you this fairytale, Please dont feed into it. Your far too young, Worry about school and hanging out with friends, A baby will grow you up REAL fast! Be careful!

Answer 21

At fourteen years old, you are far too young to be thinking about s*x.  If you have to ask about how to go about kissing someone, you obviously are nowhere close to that step, regardless of your age.

There is nothing wrong with taking a relationship slowly.  Respect your body and yourself enough to wait until you are old enough, mature enough, and emotionally ready to handle a physical relationship (and at 14, you are not ready for any of those things), and demand that any boy who goes out with you respects you and your wishes.  If he doesn't, he isn't worth giving your virginity to.

Answer 22

At your age you are experience infatuation.  You kiss a boy if you and he are both wanting to do it, it comes to you naturally.  

But the most important thing is to remember to use condoms when having s*x.  You have them with you and if he don't want to use it, refuse, totally refuse.

Not only to prevent an unwanted pregnancy, but unwanted diseases.

My daughter came to me at age 14 and said, Derrik's cousin gave him a condom so we tried it out.  Thank God they used one.  She is now 20 and married to someone else after having about 10 other boyfriends.