I need proof that my boyfriend was in jail. He said he was, but I think he turned off his phone to cheat!

Question

So, I need him to show me some proof. Do they take mug shots even if you're in there just for fighting?? He lies A LOT, so I'm thinking this was just another lie, considering he claims to be put in jail almost every weekend! He's in a different state currently, so I have no idea what's going on. Please help!

Answer 1

So he might have been in jail, but possibly cheating, and he lies a lot.  This guy sounds like quite a catch.   Get rid of him and find someone you can trust and isn't such a loser.

Answer 2

Move on. He sounds like a total loser

Answer 3

check your local county web site, it's all public record. also, after marrying AND divorcing and ex felon, dump him!

Answer 4

OMG are you dating my ex?!? I dated a man who use to do the same thing to me. I was only 17 and very gullible. He should have some kind of court paper he can show you. Oh and side note if he gets mad when you ask him for his paperwork “HE’S LYING!!!” Dump him and ran!

Answer 5

please do yourself a favor and leave him.nothing is that good! you'll thank me later.

Answer 6

you need a new boyfriend!

Answer 7

He would have to have paperwork (release papers, etc.) at the very least.  If he can't provide them, he's LYING.  Or, ask him which jail in which city he was "held" at ... tell him you want to call, just to check up on him.  He'll blow up and won't tell you ... because he CAN'T.

Bottom line, though ... if he really IS in jail all the time, you need to dump his azz, anyway.  There's PLENTY of good guys who you can date who manage to spend their ENTIRE LIVES without seeing the inside of a jail even ONCE ... go get one!

Answer 8

It doesn't sound good either way! I'd say "cut your loses" and move on!

Answer 9

I think your both losers him for being in jail and you for wanting to be his master.

Answer 10

Yes, you can determine if someone is in custody but you need to know the county, city and State.  You don't need a mug shot b/c custody records will be enough.  

I don't think I need to tell you that either way, jail or cheating, this is not a good relationship to be in.

Answer 11

call the police department and ask if he is locked up, it will be in the records. or call the jail he said he was in to ask if he is there.  

Answer 12

break up with him. what a loser.

Answer 13

wouldn't he be put in longer if he is being kept in almost every weekend.

for not complying with the law?

either way if he was in jail or cheating

you deserve a better human being.

dump his a ss

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Answer 14

omfgg every week?

tell him straight up.

be like;;

its funny how you go to jail so much?

can i see your mug shots, or ask him what jail he went to,

then go there and see if theres a record, also go to a police station they have everything on record!

Answer 15

well if it is that much work...is the guy really worth it???

Really..you have the answer all ready you just don't want to omit it is sounds like.  If he lies what makes you think that he will change?  Is that the life that you want?? TRUST is #1 with out it you will just worry your self to death ...NO ONE is worth that.  There are plenty of nice guys out there. DUMP HIM

Answer 16

yeah, break up with him