I need serious help about this person...?

Question

my best friend an i have been fighting so much this year! and now she's mad at me because i was talking to some one else and not her! like god.. and it was never my fault! but she refuses to look at me or talk to me, and i dont know what to do because she is now friends she used to hate and happily moved on not doing anything and i dont know what to do because i cant get her out of my head !!!!!!!!!!!

and no, we have no sexual feelings so dont tell me i think of her as a relationship. I don't.

but what should i do?

i cant get her out of my mind, and yet i want her to say sorry and talk to me but then i dont want a friend like her ! IM GOIN CRAZY !

Answer 1

I had a similar situation as you, I guess you guys can talk it out confront her. If that doesnt work out too well then maybe you should move on too, not every friendship lasts sorry to say. If you really cant get her out of your mind just talk to her explain how you feel, what you did wrong and that you're sorry but also what she did wrong.

i hope this helped :)

Answer 2

she is jealous just talk to her or don't be her friend

Answer 3

I've been there its natural to grow apart but I'm a firm believer in people walk into your life when you can learn something from eachother and leave you when you no longer can.

Your thinking about her because she's your best friend and you want to keep the friendship but sometimes its better to just move on

Trust me I've been there.

Answer 4

okay first of all,

it's not your fault at all.

she is jealous that you were talking to someone else and not her becuase she maybe thinks talking can lead to a friendship, better then hers and yours.

what you need to do is talk to her

tell her..

-you can't be friends with someone who is going to be jealous of you just talking to someone.

-you like her and love to hang aroound her.

-reasure her that you will always be friends.

-YOU HAVE OTHER FRIENDS OTHER THEN HER!

the mean way:

call her up and tell her very confident that ...

IT IS NOT MY FAULT THAT YOU ARE SO JEALOUS THAT I TALK TO SOME OTHER PERSON. YOUR NOT GOING TO GET MANY FRIENDS IF YOU NOT GOING TO LET YOUR FRIENDS TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE.

THEN HANG UP.

Answer 5

that's happened to me and my best friend a couple of times..

what you need to do is give each other space and she'll come around.

or after not speaking to each other for a weeks when you see her at an event or what not, she'll realize that she wants her best friend again. then you'll both feel ur friendship be stronger than ever :)

Answer 6

i kinda had this same problem except im a guy and my friend was a girl. i also wanted to be her friend again but at the same time i didn't want to talk to her because of the way she acted. really what it is, and this is reading it from my perspective, it sounds like to me that your friend is a drama queen and she feeds off attention, so when she saw that you were talking to someone else other than her, she took offense to it and got angry. try talking to her little by little and when she is around you, focus the majority of your attention on her, that way she knows you care about her and you will always be her friend. good luck