I need some advice???? Bi thing??

Question

Ok um i have been struggling with my sexuality a lot and well i think i am ... well i know i am bi... but i keep hearing that its not right and then i hear from others is its not bad its whatever u wanna do... but then when i hear these things i fl bad about being this way and i fear that God is disliking what i am doing or thinking and it just makes me feel bad thinking that i may disappointing him and i dont wanna ever do that. and i'm trying so hard to keep away from the bi thing but it just keeps coming and its like i can never hide from it i'm just so like confused on what to do cause i know for a fact i like boys but i also know that i like girls as well so i'm so confused, any advice

Answer 1

Betwixt   and   between  

Answer 2

I guess whether being bi/g*y is right or wrong comes down to people's own beliefs. I, personally, do not think being bi or g*y is wrong. I'm bi. You are who you are. You can't help it. You can't just say you don't want to be attracted to girls and not be bi.

God loves everyone, doesn't he? He's there whenever anyone needs him. He's there when you need him. He loves you no matter what. It doesn't matter that you're bi. Don't worry so much about what other people think. All that matters is what you think and make of yourself.

If you continue to tell yourself it's wrong or a sin to be bi, then you'll just bring your spirits down. You'll begin to believe it if you tell yourself it's wrong enough. You didn't choose to be bi. You just are. Don't be ashamed. Be proud. As long as you're happy, your sexuality shouldn't matter.

Answer 3

The way i see it you can only be "Bi" for so long, until yo u really do make up your mind and end up with a woman or a man, either way it's not even about being "bi" it's about finding that special person to spend your life with and when you do, being BI will not matter anymore.

Answer 4

yeah live life the way you want to then say sorry god just before you die! jesus got to have a second chance but we dont so live life well the first time, you dont want any regrets on your deathbed and seriously to be happy is worth some pain..........you know when (for example) you get hurt like with a tattoo or childbirth then you forget the pain and remember the happiness!" well life is a bit like that and "god" wouldnt want you to be suppressed and unhappy and what if he doesnt exist and you just wasted your life x

Answer 5

i feel the same but at the end of the day,, there is nothing i repeat nothing wrong with who you are,, you're you nobody else and who knows what God thinks or what God is disliking but you cant make everybody happy if what you do is making you unhappy. people say that God wants us to be happy and if that means liking the same s*x then surely God can accept that right!? dont stick to one s*x just because people tell you that you should and that god will hate you if you dont. theyre wrong if God truely wants us to be happy and that involves the same s*x then do it because we cant make regrets as big as that in our life and then never be happy cause if we do then well we'd never forgive ourselves and could end up resenting the ones who made you choose. stick to your guns dont let anybody tell you what to do.

Answer 6

just be yourself ask God to guide you in the direction he wants you to go, trust and believe ,have faith and don't worry you will take the road God chooses ,what ever he chooses

Answer 7

Is'nt there something in the bible thingy that says God should love ALL of his children??? IDK I'm not religious.

Don't worry so much about labels. I agree with the first person, its not about being "bi" or not ..its about who you love and spend your life with, whether it's a female or a male.

It's who you are and theres no point denying it or eating yourself up about it cos in the end the only one who will suffer is you, not God. Don't spend your life trying to please others or you won't ever be happy yourself.

Live life and love.

All will be good :P  

Answer 8

Ok don't worry about being bi. It's not a "sin", it just is. You shouldn't hide from who you are and who you like. Just be who you really are and live your life happily and without fear  

Answer 9

Live up to your name, by all means. Let your heart pound in your chest, belly, or wherever. It is so exciting to discover what makes you really tick. Do what you feel you should do and do not feel inhibited in any way. God will love you for it. He is fond of people who feel happy with themselves; it’s one less worry for Him! I am dead serious, darling! Follow your heart and not your mind in matters relating to your sexuality. Perhaps the bi-scene is not for you after all, but you will only find out by experience and evaluation.