I need some advice from muslim wives

Question

i have recently married a muslim who is kurdish he wants me to stay at home all the time and he says he dosent have to say i love you all the time he wants me to be a proper wife and not go to work deliverin with him im english how can i be a good wife that he wants

Answer 1

I am married to a muslim guy and I do whatever the h**l I want..and im muslim. I dont think its religion...I think its your relationship :(

Answer 2

ur husband is selfish  

Answer 3

This is more of a cultural thing, as a muslim i wouldnt stand for this, but i guess you didnt know what u were getting ur self involved with.. and now ur stuck because ur married.. well remember that ur not 'stuck' because in english countries  a woman can survive on her own so he hasnt gotu completely by the neck..

you need knowledge on islam so that he cannot play on ur lack of knowledge and use it to:

1 - keep u in the house

2 - make u wear a scarf, then the veil, then in all black,

3 - make u do all the donkey work

4 - to basically take control of ur life and reduce u to an inferior version because ur a woman

from my own experience, he will not change, he does not love you, only wants to control you, and the best thing would be to get the hellll outta there ASAP!!!!

do not let this man tell you how to live your life.. research women in islam and see how they are supposed to be respected and practically worshipped and use it against ur husband for when he WILL try to use religion as a weapon against ur GOD-GIVEN rights.

may God guide you my sister

peace

Answer 4

it's good for you to do what he say.

if you try to know about Islam, you will find that your husband is correct and he is keeping you safe from all dirty of our social environment.

you will find peace and happiness, if you mind in Islam.

Answer 5

It's simple. just do what  He says for you to do.