I need some advice here please?

Question

Ok first of all I'm 23 and he's 28 we've been friends for 4 years. We're both single. I'm in love with him. Anyway I'm gonna talk to him because I told him in an email that I have something important to tell him in person. So I'll probably do it before church or when he's at my place.

Anyway when we're alone out of ear shot, I will gaze into his eyes with a smile with a calm tone of voice and say "(Insert his name here), you're very special to me"

Now I don't know what to do after that. Should I ask him if I can hug him? I respect and honor him too much to hug or kiss him(I don't want to kiss him).

How long should I wait for a response? what body language clues would tell me he's uncomfortable or he is pleased with the news or he feels the same way?

What would it mean if I gave him a tight hug under the arms or around his neck?

Give me as much advice as detailed as possible thanks!

Answer 1

you should tell him he's special to you too.

Answer 2

dump him

Answer 3

so i am gonna assume that your friends and you want a relationship.... if he shows to talk to you it means he prolly cares about you too.... try it out... i think he will prolly respond the same way.... its ok to ask him if he would like to go out... it is 2008 ladies can do that nowadays

Answer 4

Why can't you hug or kiss someone you're in love with and whom you respect?

But just say, "You're special to me and I'd like,if you like, to take things further."

I'm kidding cause really the best way is to be spontaneous and heartfelt- after all, you are in love. Goodluck:-)