I'm looking for advice on what to do. Here is the story, I dated this girl for like 5 months last year Jan-May. She broke up with me for many reasons but mostly s*x, the 1st time we tried having s*x I had problems and she could never get past that.
Anyways, we decided to be friends and just see what happened as we both cared about each other as a person. So for the last year now we have been friends and hung out quite a bit.
Anyways she quit her job to be with her son and I've been supporting here for the last year. I've asked her over the last year many times if she thought she wanted something more again and she would say no that she wants to be alone for awhile and that we should stay friends. I said OK, I understand if you want to be alone for awhile. Well I find out she has been dating this guy for like 2 months without telling me, all the while feeding me lines about maybe there would be something more between us down the line.
I still care about her and think I want to be her friend and help her with buying things for her son and herself. I guess I'm having a dilemma on if I can continue to be friends with someone who lied to me so much. I know she needs a friend and needs help with her finacial situation. I could really use some advice.
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