I need some advice please, help?

Question

should i answer an e-mail like so? :

... u know what f*-it...

skip

skip

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...

yeah (and so goes on my writing)

(i know it's disrespectful but it's that the comments that person said really get me mad and i dont want to go back and forth in "fighting" e-mails, but i want her to know that im totally ignoring her remarks )

if the answer is no, how should i answer?

Answer 1

I don't understand your question at all.

If you're not having a meaningful dialog, why expend the energy to write her at all.  Who has time for a "fight" email.

If it were me, I would simply say "You are annoying me right now.  Consider this dialog terminated..." and email her again.

Answer 2

Don't reply at all

Answer 3

If you don't like this person's comments and don't care if you hear from her or not, just don't answer.  In order to ignore her remarks, you have to actually ignore them.

Otherwise, you can write that you found them upsetting and ask her why she made them.  Things can sound much harsher in email because you can't see facial expressions or hear tone of voice, so don't jump to conclusion.

Answer 4

I would delete it and delete the email address and block it..  this is c**p... I would not answer that...I would just block that.. and make the emails go back to the sender.. one can do that with emails.. ask someone who knows more about computers how to just return the same email.. you reject it... then she will know you ignore such stupid messages.. that is no message... so you can delete it with an easiy concience

Answer 5

Why are you even wasting your time on this girl?  If you two aren't friends, then Block Her and be done with it.

Answer 6

If you're totally ignoring her remarks, then you shouldn't respond at all. I had an old friend who hurt me to the point of not being able to continue the friendship. He got a myspace account and tried to add me. When I didn't, he sent me a really nasty e-mail calling me all kinds of horrible names and such. I didn't respond. A week later, he suspended his account. I think he only got the myspace account to keep in contact with me and harass me. When he saw I wasn't taking the bait, he gave up.