I need some advice...?

Question

im a boy 17 is it wrong for me to have a 14 year old girlfriend?

Answer 1

2 mathmatical methods of socially acceptable relationships.

25% either way or

half your age plus 7 years.

Age disparity matters less the older you get.

However, she is 14 and probably has different ideas about what she wants from a relationship than you. I know, I have recently been a boy

Answer 2

personally i think so, considering she probably hasnt even finished growing her b***s yet...

but by law youve got one year til its illegal!

Answer 3

Not really but good luck with your next birthday.

Answer 4

I am not so sure it is wrong--but I would be very careful If I were you cause it could be kinda dangerous--if you; know what I mean,You might be a nice guy--but even nice guys can find them selves in a world of trouble.

Answer 5

14 year old girls act more mature than a 14 year old boy and a 17 yo boy is usually immature. This puts you basically on the same level. Is it wrong? Do either of you think that it's wrong? It's not illegal, (but will be on your birthday). How does both parents feel about it.

Answer 6

no im 14 and my boyfriend is 16 and a half

Answer 7

well if bot of ur parents are okay with it then yes but if they rn't they can call the cops and u'll get arrested (but that will only happen after u turn 18) also it depends on the years u were born... lets say u were born in the year 1986 ok and she was born 1988 they can't do ne thing becasue u r legally only 2 birth years apart

Answer 8

sure ... you can ... there's nothing wrong with you

Both of you are so match ... but DON'T have s*x

Answer 9

i believe that it is Not wrong.... its only 3 years apart, and girls are considered to be more mature so they like older guys....

now if she was 15 and you 18, ye it is wrong cause you are now considered an adult, and she's just a teenager.... which doesn't sound good.... its like you just want her for bed(u know)..... but if your 18 and shes 15, and you dont want to take her to bed then it is good... cause you like her, and she likes you... and you wont hurt her.,....

thats the important thing

DONT HURT HER  

Answer 10

most people would say so because she hasnt even fully developed yet if shesonly 14- she's still a child and you're nearly a legal adult

Answer 11

no. not at all.

when i was thirteen my boyfriend was eighteen and a half.

seven years later, were still together.

its not illegal either. just make wise choices..if you know what i mean.  

Answer 12

it depends if u like dating younger chicks

Answer 13

nope. it isnt wrong. it would be wrong if you were 20. its

ok if you have a bf that is 4 or 5 years older than you.

so its fine.

Answer 14

no its not wrong if you really really care for her,but that is a young age. You should just be careful because she is not 17 and in some states you could get in big trouble.As long as BOTH of your parents approve I dont see why it should be a problem. good luck

Answer 15

Bro its cool until you turn 18 then its child melestation

Answer 16

i think it is im sorry but it just is ur 3 years older than her and shes probopbly still a virgin you dont want to be the guy that takes that away from a 14 year old because i no thats wat your thinking my uncle is 16 and i no wat goes on in his head he tells me everything and yea im actually 14 to and yea i wouldnt date a seventeen year old thats like asking f a 14 year old should date a 10 year old really like i have a freind who is 14 and going out with a 17 year old so i bytch slapped him so i disaprove

Answer 17

Nooooo.

Its aiight.

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Answer 18

It's fine unless you're having s*x.

Answer 19

yes

Answer 20

yea it kinds wrong....i mean she is probally just hitting puberty

and once u turn 18 its guna be a problem.

Answer 21

It doesnt matter about the age difference, my friend is 13 & is going out with a 16 yr old. The hard thing about it is how her parents react to this. Good Luck. Byee xx

Answer 22

You're going to be an adult before she will and that poses a problem with dating her.

I would talk it over with mom and dad first.

Things could get ugly if you are careless in your relationship and her daddy has a gun.

Answer 23

Ask her dad and mom.  A good chance of NO

Answer 24

uhh yeah

Answer 25

Um... i think it is wrong. Your kinda old for her and she is kinda young for you. Try dating people your own age, but if you 2 are really serious about this go for it. Just think of what will happen in the future, like going to college away from your girlfriend. Don't lead her on unless you know that you can make this work so no one gets hurt in the future.

Answer 26

Honey, you shouldn't even be asking this question.  That's only 3 years . At your age, it may seem awkward. However when you get older, it really doesn't matter. Anyways, it is not wrong at all. Just make sure you Both are mature enough to handle a relationship.

Answer 27

Not at all

In love age does not matter at all

Everyone keep asking that will age difference in relationship will affect the lenght of relationship

actually keep going

and do not take tension

Answer 28

its not weird or anything...but when ur 18 and shes 14/ or 15 that will be weird. none the less i hate when older guys go for girls my age that are in my league. get with someone ur own age bro

Answer 29

It's not wrong.

But you should consider some legal issues that will jump at you whenever you turn 18.

Legally, you'll be an "adult," and she will still be a child.

Get what I'm sayin'???

And even if her parents, if she, and everybody else is cool with whatever you guys might do, she'll have a particular power against you shall things get nasty at one point of another.

She could accuse you of anything you guys do, even if she consented.

Just because she will still, technically, be a child.

So be careful.  Keep your head straight.  And keep her happy.

Answer 30

I personally think 3 years age difference is fine and is dependent on the maturity of the individuals but if her parents were to take a disliking to you, you could be arrested for statutory rape

Answer 31

well its not really a problem.. in a relationship age is just a nuber but maturity counts more then anything..  if u mean legalyy i dont think its it a problem either excpet if u turn 18..

maturity counts age doesnt..