I need some advice.................

Question

i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years he's 38 and im 23 he got very upset at me today ,because he thinks that everytime he is gonna buy something for his kids i seem upset, but im not gonna lie if its something silly like candy all the times i will get upset especially if i know we're gonna be behind on rent and we still gotta worry about other important things , i always think ahead and i guess he took it the wrong way and now he's mad at me and he doesnt want to talk to me , this is very fustrating when i always dedicate my time not just to him but to his kids , i make sure laundry is done and food is done on time , right now im at my moms house cuz i just need it to get away for a lil bit , tomorrow i have a family party to go to and i want things to be good

Answer 1

Leave this relationship and get on with your own life.  Go to school and concentrate on a career that will allow you to not be dependent on goofballs like this.

Think about yourself, your health, and your sanity.

Answer 2

As a counselor, I have experience in working on relationship issues.  Have you both sat down and had a calm, non-defensive, rational conversation about how you both feel, what you would both like for the relationship, what you both can compromise on, what the priorities for the relationship should be, what your roles should be and so on?  You both need to be on the same page.  When you have this conversation, try not to let it get into a fight.  If you both need to take a time-out to be calm, then do that.  The point of this is not to blame or hurt, but to resolve this in a mature, adult way.  Hope this helps.  Take care and be well.