I need some advise, my husband doesn't want our baby!?

Question

we learned of our pregnancy early & i'm now 5 mos but my husband recently told he he was mad about me getting pregnant. we didn't plan this baby but we already have 4 children & we talked about having another one but wasn't sure about it & didn't really agree on it. i recently went to a dr's visit for an ultrasound & my husband said he wanted to come & see the baby too but the night before he stayed up late getting drunk. after i got home from the dr's office he didn't even ask me how the baby was doing? i thought if he isn't going to ask then i'm got going to tell him anything about whats going on with the baby. am i being stupid about this?

Answer 1

You are far from being stupid...he's being a selfish, ignorant pig and needs to get himself in check big time.  You might want to remind him that you didn't make this baby on your own and it's time he stop acting like a spoiled brat and start being a man.  I truly wish you the best in this situation.

Answer 2

abortion is great.

PRO CHOICE

Answer 3

Thats really messed up. Hopefully he'll get used to the fact that you're having a baby soon, otherwise if you dont think he'll love the baby like he loves the rest of your children, maybe consider putting him/her up for adoption so the child will have a mother and a father. but I think things will change over time, I think he's just in shock. Talk to him though.

Answer 4

No you are not.  I would be very hurt and disappointed in my husband..  Just make sure he knows you didn't get pregnant on your own... He needs to get his priorities straight.. Congrats to you and best of luck!!!!!

Answer 5

I would ask him if he is willing to go to a relationship councilor and if he will not, I would seriously consider a trial separation.  He doesn't need to be getting drunk with kids in the house.  And you are not being stupid, you are being human.  Anyone would react exactly like you are reacting.  You have a right to your feelings.  You need to really think about how he is going to treat the child once it is born!  Good luck, and G-d bless!

Answer 6

you need to get into counceling

Answer 7

maybe he's just worried about supporting another baby? times are tough for everyone right now with gas and food prices. he still has a few months to warm up to the idea of having another baby. good luck