I need some advise?

Question

im going to a new school this year and i want to make friends very bad but at my old school i didn't have a lot bc i am very shy around new people i meet and i kinda new very scared when i am with a lot of people what should i do to help make friends

Answer 1

the only thing you can really do and it is the best thing you can possibly do in this situation is be yourself do youre own thing and dont give a c**p about what anyone thinks when you do this the people who should be youre friends will be attracted to you .

Answer 2

If you are going to a new school this year i.e. highschool, you should expect that there are going to be many new people there too. That makes the process of meeting others a whole lot easier..

Induction days are days when you can come up to people and say hi or when people come to you.. Or when you are the new kid because you have left your old school to go to another one, people can still come up to you and see who you are. That's how connections start.. Team work in classrooms can also build up friendships as well as joining after school clubs.

Answer 3

just b more out going and dont b so shy just b urself but dont b so scared talk with a few guys and girls and tell them about u! GOOD LUCK!

-Little Angel!

Answer 4

Let your old self go.

You have the chance to be absolutely ANYONE you want... you could be funny girl, weird girl, cool girl, sporty girl, preppy girl... whatever!  

Don't plan your actions ahead of time... just let things happen, this will bring out the "true you" more.  

Also try to be self-confident.  Everyone is attracted to someone with amazing self-confidence. Don't bring yourself down so much.  Friends get tired of reassuring their friends of their self-worth, so in order for other people to believe that you are worth something, you have to believe it too.  

Put this into practice- for once think of all the good things about you instead of all the bad things.  ignore the bad and keep the good in the front of your mind

Answer 5

Join a school club for something you are interested in. You will find friends through activities at school like the clubs where they are smaller groups of kids working on the club's goal. Like yearbook, a social service club, whatever you have an interest in. When you do meet someone new, ask them a lot of conversational questions about themselves (where they live, how many brothers/sisters they have, do they like this school, why or why not, etc.). People love to talk about themselves if you give them the chance to do that by asking about them.

Answer 6

Well make small talk.

Compliment them on what thier wearing.

Be honest and friendly.

If you have a great personality youll have

great friends!!

Answer 7

I'm tha same way. In a way, u need to REINVENT urself. Like normally u may not crack jokes, or give ur input on a conversation ur overhearing, but this is a new school where no one knows tha old u, so get out of tha norm for u n do some new things, u may be hesitant at first, but go for it! really, try it at least 3 times. At first u'll be really scared, but it will pay off, i'm still a pretty dull conversationalist, sometimes,  cus i don't like to be fake and say things i don't mean, so it's hard...   but i have friends' now. Just don't let it affect ur schoolwork.