I need some answers to this question please.....?

Question

if your married and you love your spouse alot and he tells you that you can have s*x with someone else and that he wouldnt get mad would you take the chance to do it or not

Answer 1

No, I absolutely would not!  When you married him, you took a vow to be faithful to him and him telling you that you can have s*x with someone else doesn't make it right.

In fact, I would be hurt, insulted and angry that he would even suggest something like that.

It makes me wonder if perhaps he is already having s*x with someone else himself and feels it will ease his conscience if you do the same thing......that way, if you find out he is cheating, and if in the meantime you did have s*x with someone else, he can throw it up at you and say "well you did it too".  Something smells awfully fishy here.  Men don't just up and give their wives permission to cheat!  I'd be keeping my eyes and ears open and doing some checking to see what he's been up to!

Answer 2

He say that probably because he got s*x with another woman and he want to get rid of you thats why he wants you to get another one so HE can get another woman and not stick with you any more !  

Answer 3

No way. This is your spouse you're talking about! Even if he says he wouldn't get mad, i dont see how it wouldn't hurt him.

Answer 4

DONT DO IT!!!! whether whatever she said, even if she's totally honest about letting you have s*x with anybody. she still doesnt want you to do it.

it's like a subconcious test of your love and her trust.

dont do it.

Answer 5

no just in case he changed his mind or would want to get back at you for doing someone else

Answer 6

yes. have fun.

Answer 7

yeah, i think that it may come back to bite you in the *** later. if hes doin it, i dont see the problem. be swingers. find other couples and do it together.

if you feel comfortable go ahead.

Answer 8

The basis of Love is = Faith/Trust . If you are saying that you love your spouse a lot then you cannot break his trust.

   Same applies to him,if he is permitting you to do this then there may be 2 possibilities:-

1.Either he is testing you.

2.Or he has done same thing and want you to do that so as to compensate his mistakes with you.

Whatever may be his reason,you should not do this.

Answer 9

I think that it will bite you in the butt later. I would stay away from that. Maybe he is sleeping around

Answer 10

no, its cheating.he will use it against you later.or he is has already cheated on you.

Answer 11

I would be really suspicious!  Did he bring the subject up, or did you ask him if you could have s*x with someone else?  If he brought it up, then I suspect that he has reasons for wanting you to have s*x with someone else, and those reasons do not have anything to do with loving you.  He might be trying to even the score, if he has already cheated on you.  Or, he might want you to cheat first, so then he will feel right about doing it himself.  Or, he might want to start doing some couples swapping, and maybe he thinks this is a way to get started.  If you are the one who wants to have s*x with someone else, and you brought up the idea to him, then I find it hard to believe that you really, truly love him.  It sounds like the two of you should not be married, if one of you wants to have s*x with someone else, or if one of you is encouraging the other to have s*x with someone else.  I agree with another person who said...something smells really fishy!!