I need some boyfriend advice!!!!?

Question

There was this girl on my soccer team who started spreading rumors about me, and was acting like a major b**** to me. And about a month later i learned that my boyfriend had met her at a party and is friends with her, and yesterday she called him while i was with him, and he was nice to her and everything. That got me really mad, do you think its right for him to be friends with her or should he stick up for me and not talk to her.

Answer 1

see this is the hardest thing about a relationship yet just tell him that you don't meet eye to eye with her and that you would like him to stick up for you if she says anything mean about you just let him be friends with her because i am sure that you have some friends that he doesn't like

Answer 2

Your should talk to ur boyfriend about it and see if he understands. Then he should tell u whether its something major or he respects you and decide not to be friends with he. or maybe just maybe you three should seat down and talk it out.

Answer 3

WTF if he is friends with her who cares, its not like he is cheating on you with her.

Answer 4

He should be able to be friends with her but when ever she says some thing about you he should say some thing to her about it.

Answer 5

he should be allowed to be friends with who ever he wants to BUT when someone is being a b**** to his girlfriend he should stick up for her! ask him what the h**l is he playing at!!

Answer 6

umm if you trust him then it shouldnt matter if he has friends that are girls...if you dont then i guess tell him you dont want him talking to her

Answer 7

It is a written rule to always hate your girlfriend's or boyfriend's enemies of course he should side with you

Answer 8

u should be more important than her and if he can't stop talking to her 4 u then theres obviously something going on with those 2 so at that point u should break up with him(or at least tell him then he can't talk 2 her around u because they might only be friends)

Answer 9

Perhaps tell him what she did to you so he know what she can be like but it is possible that he will think you are the nasty one for saying that.

Answer 10

well if he's not great friends with her it shouldn't matter.  But it does seem like he shouldn't be friends with her.  Does he know about the fight thing?  If not, just tell him and see where it goes

Answer 11

Now now! Don't be greedy!

We all like to have friends, but just because you've fallen out with someone doesn't mean another person can't like the same person. These are the types of things you have to think about when you build a relationship. If your boy starts getting secretive about her - get worried. At the moment you don't need the extra stress.

Answer 12

You can't control who his friends are but if he truly cares for you he should stick up for you if she is spreading hateful rumors about you!! If he has to consistently stick up for you because she's talking trash about you he will within time break his friendship with her and see her for who /what she really is!!

Answer 13

You have the right to be angry, though, does he know what she did to you?

I'm pretty sure he will feel different if you told him.

He won't be a good boyfriend if he doesn't stick up for you.