I need some confidence/ encouragement?

Question

ok so i'm really shy. i don't know why, i know i'm not weird or ugly or anything, but i just don't have like any confidence, it sucks. can someone PLEASE give me some tips to just go up to people and TALK, how do i start a convo with new people? (i've started a new school for about 4 days now) any tips would help! how to start the convo? how to make people want to talk to me? etc.... thanks!

Answer 1

-don't be stalky

-smile

-look like you know what you're doing

-talk about something which both of you obviously know about (school related)

-don't look like you're really stressed out to talk to them

-pay attention to what they're saying

-look interested.

as you go along things are going to be better. I'm going to a new school as well next week =) can you tell me what happened on your first few days of school???????

Answer 2

well all you have to do is sit where there is a group of people and join in on convos.

Answer 3

you just need to ask yourself 'whats the worse that could happen?' and then be prepared for it. to get people to talk to you, you have to appear approachable. smile is key.