I need some encouragement..

Question

ive been with this guy for 4 years.. i lived with him and all. but hes changed.. he started being very aggressive with me..and today i felt hes crossed the line.. he started to grab me and even smaked me in the face when i told him it was over... and now im staying with my cousin.. but i feel so hopeless and alone.. can any one please give me some words of wisdome??

Answer 1

Don't turn back from your decision. A little story for you my mom was in an abusive relationship with my dad (but my momma fought back, momma ain't no punk :)) but anywho like the saying goes "if he hit you once, he will hit you again". Don't feel bad, be encouraged no matter what the situation is. I vowed to myself & my mom that I would not repeat the cycle. Don't look back & don't fall weak for him, it's only a ploy to get you back. You don't deserve to be treated like a freakin pitbull, only they get ruffed up and smacked around. Keep goin sista girl, there are too many men out there that would kill for a good woman and always remember not to look back but to keep it steppin, you can do much better. LET HIM GO!! GOOD LUCK :)

Answer 2

youll get threw this..he was an assholee

and its good you left him before it got any worse

best of luck to you ! [=

Answer 3

Maria please look at my profile and my history of questions I answered today. Someone asked the question have you ever felt this way before. My answer-yes because of abuse. It was very hard for me. You are safe now and that is good. It is typical for women who experience abuse to feel alone and often miss their attacker.  It is a cycle that must end with you. It won't be a suprise if you recieve a contact from him claiming he is sorry. Or you may even return to him crying you want him back. Know this- in a situation like this--He is the one who enjoys the fact he has control. You have just taken that away from him by leaving. Please stay strong=dont give up hope sweetheart. Every state in the United States has a violence counseling center for abused women..free. Look into it, please. You will find you are not alone. Keep your head up.

From a sister who was in the same boat=

a prayer for you.

Answer 4

leave him and get a PFA

Answer 5

You are following the right path.You are wise enough to make decisions,but don't trust people too early.Do make friends and forget what has happened in the past.My friend,your intentions are good,so don't fear anything.Tell me more...