I need some good advice from guys and girls want to hear from both sides?

Question

My boyfriend and I went through some rough patches over the last couple of months.We have been together for almost 2year this February .See the thing is that he was chatting it up with this girl that he met online... I called him out about it and told him i did like it got as bad as us almost breaking up over it, we decide to work it out..He ended up telling her that he was in a relationship and of course she got her feelings hurt..See they meet online.

But lately she has been texting and emailing him saying how she can't believe that they have stop talking cold turkey he have not been answering her back but she keeps doing it.It has been a month since she have spoken to him...I picked up the phone because we have the exact phone and i seen a text message saying how she miss him.. Would i be wrong if i called her up and telling to stop because she is acting like an obsessed school girl who is lusting over a guy she never meet.. I never been the type of girl to go after the girl but in this case she knows he is in a relationship and i feel she is disrespecting me by keep calling..I'm at the point where i want to kick her ***.............

Answer 1

     It's up to your boyfriend to do the calling.  He has to choose between you and this other girl, and you should tell him that.  Give him an ultimatum.  If he says he chooses you, then he calls this girl up in your presence and lays it on the line.  If she still calls, then yes, you call her and read the riot act.

Hope this has helped

Good luck

Mike B

Answer 2

i would call her up in front of your boyfriend so he dont thing you are sneaking around on his phone, and tell her to leave your boyfriend alone and look for some single guys online which there are millions

Answer 3

It is a rare woman who would continue to text after a month if she was not hearing from someone at all.  Are you sure he is not communicating with her?

Was the text open when you read it?  If it was, why did he not delete it?

Personally, I would never stoop the the level of calling this other woman.  Your boyfriend has to defend your relationship, and he also needs to show you that he is true to his word.  If he does not, he is not a keeper and you are staying in this relationship for the wrong reasons.

Answer 4

CALL THIS GIRL UP AND TELL HER TO STOP FUHKING CALLING YOUR MAN!!

Answer 5

No, YOU don't call her,you have your b/f to call her with YOU there, and he can tell her it is over to move on,that it is causing problems in your relationship with him and he was wrong to initiate another relationship while being in one.

Answer 6

um i kinda know how u feel me nad my boyfriend currently had a simuliar situation but i think first u need to trust him nad tell him that u do appreciate that he has stopped cold nad he did stand up and secondly yeah call her nad in a polite manner tell her that she needs to stop or else things are going to have to be dealt by the law. or u could just get ur number changed if it really gets bad. dont get really defensive unless it starts to get meesy cuz rememeber u have him not her. good luck