I need some help again..........?

Question

my husband and i have been married for almost 8 yrs. (st. patricks day) with 3 beautiful kids ages 7 6 and 7 wks old and i have cheated on him a few times with this guy i meet and he tells me that he knows that i have bc when i joke about it i start smiling and im just wondering if i should stop jokng about it and tell or what should i do i mean i really do love my husband very much dont think i dont

Answer 1

just let it go. learn from your mistake and move on. no marriage is perfect. mistakes get made. if the guilt is eating you alive, then tell, but be expected for your world to change. if you are done with the affair and want to be with your husband, move on!! if you love the man you are cheating with, maybe you need to reconsider whether you really want to be married at all. just some food for thought. you will do the right thing, no matter what it is,.

Answer 2

If you love your husband, I would stop cheating on him. I'm not putting you down by any means because I think that there are always two sides to every story. But, if you are happily married and love your husband, I would stop and evaluate what situation it is that is causing you to go out on him. If you continue to cheat, it will only hurt your husband and children in the long-run.

Answer 3

Well after hearing this, you obviously aren't IN love with your husband.  You can love someone without being IN love with that person.

Answer 4

STOP cheating if you love your husband

Answer 5

l would suggest  that you confess to cheating on your husband, but,  be very wise regarding how and when they do it. He might already have an idea from your little jokes but if you really do care about your husband as well as your kids and keeping your family, deal with this before it is too late and start working on possibly earning your husbands trust again.

Prepare yourself because this is going to an emotional situation for both of you.

Good Luck