I need some help. anyone?

Question

PLEASE HELP ME

ok well im 13.

my mom kinda has some problems.

she yells ALOT

and she gets mad at all the little things like at dinner (her and my stepdad always watch the news) if i say something just like 'pass the salt' while theyre watching it shell yell at me

i have 2 older brothers. when i was 6-7 she used to always fight with my brother who was mabe 13-14 at the time she used to always spank him and sometimes shed hit him.

she smokes. in the car(she has the window down) i refuse to breathe in the smoke so i put my face in my purse or just like cover my mouth.

in june we went to canada and i back talked to her. and she grabbed my neck. i started crying hystericly. and this was in public.

and just tonight she grabed some of my hair and kinda pulled it because i said 'freaken' i front of her

shes nice like 1/2 the time so yeah

she doesnt spank me or really hurt me those 2 times were the only times.

her and my stepdad are kinda racist. and ive told them that.

what should i do?

please no rude answers

Answer 1

believe i have a mother like that but she don't hit me cuz i dnt take it i dnt mean no harm by that but i jus have been thru so much n i feel like my mother dnt unersatnd so do wat i plan to do 1 day jus sit yo mother dwn n tell her how u fell. well ts not that easy but now i have learned to jus leave the huse so i wuldnt do anything that i wuld regret!!!!!! so wen u is n a siruation like that jus get away that is the best thing

Answer 2

thats rough, my dads sorda like that but nearly as bad, i would spend as much time as you can out of the house. go to a friends, walk, sport teams, anything to get out.

Answer 3

its ok breath Ive been there and this is not a fun place to be, probably the best i can do for you is say there are those who have made it thru these things. do all you can for yourself because maybe the only hope you have for it possibly working is you trust in yourself and learn not to speak what you think that last one will save you lots of trouble in the mean time breath and take heart all is not lost