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I need some help please.?

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This is hard to explain.

Right,

when i was thirteen i lost my virginity to one of my close boy mates, we were young and stupid and we didnt know what we were even doing. I would hardly call it 's*x' to be honest because i lasted nomore than a few seconds.. i told a few close friends about it and that was that. i have always regretted it.

Since then i have become friends with a girl who is close to the lad i lost it too. He never told her about me and him, and i did the same.

She has however become friends with one of the 'close friends i had at the time' who knows about what happened.

I have become increasingly paranoid she might let slip and then our secret will be out.

Thats not the only problem.

I am since with a new lad who doesnt know about me and the other guy. I never really thought it would ever come up again as a problem, but now theres a possibility it could im in trouble.

He hates the lad i lost it too due to many arguements and fights they used to have. Im worried if he finds out i lost it too him many years ago he will hate me too.

What do i do?

i cant tell him.

but i dont want him to find out another way either.

any ideas on how to break the news .

im stressed and i really would appriciate some help.

i do get myself into some bad situations.

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  1. IF it dose come up and it is a problem he is,nt worth being with in the first place .WE ALL HAVE A PAST that includes your currant feller!!


  2. Say nothing.  If it does come out just admit your childish stupidity.

  3. just think positive that it will not come out or if it does just laugh and say we was only young we wouldnt actually call it s*x.

    But then say 2 ur boyfriend that he is the one you really lost it to and that he is the best thing that has ever happend to you.

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