I need some help to know about this?!?

Question

hi,i'm not 3joom i'm his sister and i feel sometimes desperate lately and depressed ,angry for no reason, dizzy, and hard breathing, i have sometimes trouble with making friends because usually these friends are my enemy but i ignore them but then i get to called a loser i use to be so popular and friendly and happy but this school is separated only girls so yeah! and i cry fast ,sometimes i feel that i want to cry, don't go along with my family.!!!people please tell me what's right! because i've turned in a really bad positions just to inform you that i'm no emo,heavymetaler,rocker with my respect to them i hear all kind of music but now angry and sad music.....

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

i think their is something wrong i've tried to talk to my family but they say i'm over reacting or being sarcastic !

am i pleas be honest?!......comment please

Answer 1

Poppet you sound quite young. Therefore what you are going through right now is perfectly natural for many

teens.

It's all to do with hormones rushing around inside you, and struggling for there correct position.

You are the only one who can control this Sweetheart.

Stop listening to sad tunes,or any other that make you Tearful. Those that call you a loser are the losers,as they quite obviously have no respect or understanding.

You are what you attract, is a very good saying.

In other words if you go round with a gloomy face,lack of confidence and trying to be party to friends that really are a waste of time, sadly you will get very little back.

Look at your good points work on them, start mixing with nice people. Think of all you have that so many don't. Above all Poppet stop worrying your self about what others think of you. It is what you think of your self that counts.  If you can try doing some after school voluntary work. Even if it is just shopping for an elderly person. Give to those that need you, Forget the ones that Don't!  Good Luck.

If it makes you feel any better, I'm 52 and still cry to certain music. [wink.]

Answer 2

I think what you're experiencing is anxiety. That's what the dizziness and the hard breathing is all about. And you're family is wrong when they tell you that you're overreacting. What you're experiencing is normal. It's a reaction to your new surroundings and I'm not too sure if I understood you correctly,but I think you said that you are going to a new school. If you are, this could be period of adjustment for you.

I think you really need to find some people that you can talk to. If you can't talk to your family, perhaps you can talk to a councelor at your school.

As for the people who are calling you a loser, my advice is don't pay attention to them. I know it's difficult when you're surrounded by people like this, but they are not right.

I hope this helps a little.