I need some help with my life, can you help me out?

Question

I need help... I believe that my family doesn't trust me, even though I haven't done anything to break it (the trust)... It just seems like they don't know me... I'll give you an example, last night, I asked my mom if I could go out with my friends at 7 AM... she refused... keep in mind that my area is full of the "dirty" youth, drunkards, pimps, etc... She said that whenever boys go out too early, or too late, they always go for something like that (s*x, drugs, etc.)... Now, I'll tell you about myself, I am alone at home most of the time... EVEN THEN, I don't smoke (some of my friends do), or m********e, or even look at p**n... I am a good student too... and like I said, we get lots of chances to smoke, have s*x, and all; I NEVER DID ANY OF THAT... why doesn't my family trust me then? I ask for their permission every time I'm going out or doing something... only thing which is odd about me is that I am awake till 5 AM (on weekends, which is not odd I guess; a lot of other people I know, do the same)... I love reading, and people claim that I have a lot of knowledge; even then, my mom thinks I am a dumb-*** of some sort... help me out please... this is my friends account, I was too lazy to open mine... help me please...

Answer 1

Your mom is just trying to protect you. I can not say she does or does not trust you because I do not know her but as someone who works with teens and they are all great if they wanted me to let them go out at 7am in the morning I wouldn't either just because not the trouble they could in to but what their friends can get into and then they all can be punished.

And your mom may call you a dumb*** it because most of the time parents just don't know how to tell there kids how great they are. Probally to all of her friends or coworkers she tells them how great you are.

Trust your mothers judgement, she just wants the best for you because she loves you.  

Answer 2

Its not that she doesnt trust you its just that she cares for you deeply and doesnt want you to fall under bad influence. She is just being a good mommy and protecting what is hers. Moms always know what is best for their children and if she says no its best to just go with it because she knows what is best (they have like a sixth sense or something.) Well yeah theirs a reason for everything and if one day she thinks its alright she may say yes but until then your community probably concerns her (honestly dude just listen to her) Hope I helped and you understood your mommys perspective!!!