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ok i am trying to figure out why my mom like to ake things harder on herself i keep trying to convince to do this and that to make it easyer but she wont its me my brother and sister she has been doing this scince we were born she refuses and it is affecting are relationship cause when she is about to fall on her face and give up on everything she expects us to be right there and stop her she keeps talking about killing herself and just give up on everything and she has us three and it is not like we can do anything about it cause we are all under and i cant really talk to her cause everything that i do she dosent want to here it cause its her life shell do whatever the **** she wants she even through us under the bus to make herself look good she blames us for everything and everytimes something is wrong its our fault and to tell you the truth it even is making me think about giving up and end it all we have been in counsouling for about two years and that hasnt helped at all she just stops going and she also insist on getting in abusesive relationships and putting us through it and i dont want to turn out like her at all how can i help her how can i make her see that what she is doing i effecting all of us cause all she dose is come home from work scream and yell at the top of her lungs that the place isnt clean enough then gets a glass of wine and goes to bed and she is also on drugs but i dont want to call and report her cause she is my mom and i dont want her to loose her nursing licence cause she swears that it is her life we spend no time together as a family unless my older sister takes us and she dosent act like a mom at all it makes me want to cry everytime i see my friends mom and how they get to say i love you and how if they mess up they dont yell bloody murder and stuff like that it has driven me to the point the that i have started to cut myself and my younger brother is doing drugs but she dosent see that even my little sister who is only 12 is never home she is always gone we have tryed everything including social services but we dont want to leave her cause somehow deep inside we do still love her i just need someway to manage this or at least how to cut off all feeling cause i dont know i really do give up i dont know what to do she loves to have the attention on her and puts us in the shadows to do so i dont want to turn out like her but somehow it is happening please someone help i need a way to fix this without hhurting her cause im affraid that we will end up like her in a abuseive relationship on drugs and and hurting everyone around me
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