I need some help with this dream?

Question

My mother passed away 18 months ago. I still miss her alot. I have a 2 year old grandaughter I love tremendously. My dream: I was living in a new house off a very busy street. Some place I really didn't want to live. I kept asking myself if this was just a dream. My Mother and my grandaughter were living with me. And a single father with 2 boys. The house backed up on a condo complex with a shared pool. I was with my gandaughter in the kiddy pool. When I was distracted for a moment and couldn't find her. I found her in the big pool floating. I dived in and got her. I was trying to revive her. I felt an overwhelming emotion of dread. When the dream just ended and took me back to the house. My Mom was complaining about someone drinking her pear juice. Weird I know. I kept trying to pack things so I could move out of the house. My mom was wearing this loose fitting muslin gown. I went up to her and just hugged her and told her she didn't have to be so angry anymore. I told her to come with me. As I took her to her grave and told her she had passed on. The sky opened up like something spiritual was coming through. I believed this to be God. I asked if I could just have a few more moments with her. I hugged and kissed her and told her I loved her. She told me everything was going to be ok and that it was time for her to go. I woke up sobbing. Can anyone enlighten me on this dream?

Answer 1

The words of your Mother, don't worry things will turn out fine...

you fear to move on... but you must.

death is just your feeling of insecurity within a new area.

your granddaughter is just a symbol of what you love. Teach her to swim and know that God has a reason for everything. Be the best and He will smile upon you.

Scary dreams are often ways to deal with deep hurt.

Hope this helps.

Pray often.

Peace.

Answer 2

As a heavy thinker of time and conscienceness i understand how those who have passed from our lives didn't necessarily passed from Life. You seem to understand how insignificant it is to get mad about having been stold a juice and your mother wherever she may be also understands, you and her both know the importance and beauty of taking care of a 2 yr old girl and along with this importance you are welcome to enter the life that you want WHERE you want.

Answer 3

wow

Answer 4

I usually tell people to look for psychological causes of a dream, but this is not the case. I think you did talk to your mother and you should believe her when she says it's going to be ok. She wants you to let her go and be happy for her, because she is in a better place. She wants YOU to be happy.

Answer 5

wow again

Answer 6

   I had a dream where I would fight dark figures but no matter how hard I hit I was unable to defeat my foe. I feel your dream can be related to a feeling of helplessness. you feel you dont have the power to control the death of those around you. As indeed you can't. But You can only honor those who have passed. Live with no Regrets you are in control of the future and your grandaughter can use your guidance

Answer 7

That's sad. I'm sorry. Maybe you should visit our mother's grave. If that doesn't work, get some therapy. I think you should also spend more time with your father.

Answer 8

Thats sad. I need therapy now. You should too.

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