I need some self improvement, can u pls help?

Question

hey im a 19yr old university student who's been ging thru lonliness alot lately and would like to start dating when i go back to school in september. However i think i should work on my Self esteem and confidence in myself first

does anyone know how i should work and build on these?

pls tell me, lots of detailed answers would be appreciated :)

Answer 1

if you're gonna start dating, just remind yourself that you are who you are.... and that you don't need to act fake or put up a front in order to "win" someone's heart!

I suggest working on believing in yourself... it doesn't matter what any other person thinks about you. Be yourself & someday God will put someone in your path who is compatible with your personality make-up.

Above All... just be yourself :O)  You've gotta be comfortable with yourself b4 you can be comfortable with anyone else!

Answer 2

I had some issues when I was beginning the teenage years and it took a kind student adviser to sit me down and explain some personal hygiene tips that my mother didn't teach me.  This may not be a problem but consider it. It may make all the difference in the world if you go to a cosmetics store and get a make over as well.  You don't have to spend a lot of money to get their help.

Try to see others as people that are some good, some bad, some confused, and trying (like you) to find someone so they won't be lonely.  Try new things and see what you like and then become an expert in one or more of them so you can talk about them to others.  Your confidence in your self should be based on you and the fact that there is no one in the world quite like you.  

Get a recording by Neil Diamond called the Desiderata.  It will help you put things in perspective.

Get information and form opinions. Be ready to intelligently defend them this will make you interesting.

Answer 3

hi there,

i have been doing a little self improvement myself, and have found these websites particularly useful, i hope they help you.

http://www.Make-Money-Online-Today.Net

http://www.VoluntaryWorkToday.Com

http://www.CompleteSurveys.Org

Answer 4

dont hound yourself, relax and have fun, be yourself and youll have confidence.

Answer 5

well, i will help you a little. start with your appearance, always dress as smart as you can. Start to tell yourself that you look good, hold yourself high and walk as if you are special. Don't swagger, but just have an air of confidence about you. You will soon begin to feel better, it takes time but it does work.