I need someone's advice about school?

Question

ok here is the thing, i get really sick in the morning before i go to school and sometimes at school i throw up and get stomach ache's. so, i hate school so much because of this and also I'm an unsocial person and i don't like to be around society that much. anyway's i was thinking of getting virtual school , but i told my parent's and they say no for the fact that they think I'm going to be watching p**n and doing bad stuff in my computer, they just don't understand. i also want to get virtual school because i am currently on an acne treatment that the treatment involves applying this cream in the morning and i don't really do it completly because i go to school and it is noticeable, but if i take virtual school i could do the treatment full time.

Anyway's can anyone help me! i need an advice!

I am really smart , but there is too much thing's going around my school that make's me hate it and going around me!

Answer 1

You can't run away from your problems all your life. You need to find a way to cope. Also, if you are so smart, why haven't you learned sentence structure? Stay in school.

Answer 2

Is there a way you could compromise with your parents about your computer? Parental controls, or moving the computer to the living room? Nobody's going to look up p**n with his mother over his shoulder.

Your parents have probably said that school is your job. Treat it that way. Bring up your problems, point out the real physical toll it's taking on you. You're not quitting your job, you're just kind of transferring to a new office.

Try virtual school for a semester. Cut a deal with your parents. You'll maintain a B+, get your chores done, whatever it is. Ask them what they want.

Make a list of reasons you want to go, in priority order. You get sick in the morning is top, acne meds are on the bottom.

Here's the thing about your social issues: they'll be fixed once you leave the hostile environment of your school. You'll catch up on your sleep, your stomach will settle, you'll be more confident because you'll like what you do every day and you'll have some solid friends. You don't have to be a social butterfly to be well-adjusted; I'm a loner but I like the friends I have and am capable of making them.

The hard part will be in the beginning, because you're going to need some time to unwind, to stay in your room all day playing video games until the novelty wears off and you realize that you want to learn something.

Answer 3

well maybe you are thinking about how school , will be something oyu dont doa anymore

Answer 4

You need to talk to your parents about all the stuff going on. Perhaps there's another solution than virtual school, which they apparently don't trust you to do. If they can't trust you, even if you're trustworthy, you aren't going to be able to convince them for that. Talk to them about other possibilities.

Answer 5

if your parents don't trust you then you should make a deal with them and suggest that they supervise you!!!

Answer 6

tell your parents exactly what you told us and see what they think. work out a solution TOGETHER.

Answer 7

I would suggest that you do some research and get some good information about virtual school.  Find examples and success stories of others who have taken that route and done well.  My niece is an example if you want to use her.

We live in the MidWest.  She used a school where she had to go in person once every week or two and speak to a teacher.  There were teachers available online and the majority of testing was done online.  She graduated in the upper percentages of her class and was even included in the graduation ceremony. (Wore a cap and gown and walked across the stage)

In doing that, she was able to begin some classes at the local Junior College during her Senior year and so had a jump on things.  She is currently continuing her education and is working in a doctor's office.

Next, I would suggest that you make a list of the pro's and con's.  Yes, there are a few con's and by thinking through and letting your parents know that you understand that, they will respect your opinion even more.

Present your request to them in a calm, neutral setting.  Let them know that you are willing to abide by their decision but ask them to hear you out completely and wait at least 24 hours before making a final decision.

You could put some of their concerns over your internet safety to rest by offering to help pay for filtering software on the computer.

I hope that you will find peace whatever the decision.  Don't let the whole teen-age experience get you down.  You are not yet who you will become.  The future is wide open.  Some of the most handsome, well-adjusted men I now know had the worst acne and were the most self-conscious in high school.

If they insist you stay in school, then be a trailblazer.  Help to positively change the things you don't like.  Rise up and be a positive leader.

God bless you!

Answer 8

I know how you feel my son has crohns diasease it is hard a public schools that is why i home school with k12.com  its the best thing that ever happen to my son good luck and dont worry it will be ok