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Question

okay so i think my friend is a lez and shes sooo weird i dont want to be her friend but i also dont want her to think i hate her what do i do or say

ps all my friends hate her tooo

Answer 1

Well seeing as how this is still your friend, I&#039;d try to handle this situation as delicate as possible. Be honest with her, and ask her personally: whats going with you? Is there any way I can help you? You aren&#039;t how you use to to be so please tell me whats wrong so we can make things better. I&#039;m sure your friend will appreciate it better than you saying I think I hate you now and so do all my friends, I think your a lez! Might not be the nicest thing to say. So, take into consideration her feelings, not just yours and hopefully things will turn out ok.  

Answer 2

ok just slowly walk away and wen  she says hi just be like umm ok and say hi but show her that your not to close with her. thnks for being my fan!!

Answer 3

well do u hate her cuz shes weird or cuz ur friends hate her?

if cuz shes weird slowly part from her and she will understand, still be loyal tho.

if its cuz ur friends hate her, then ur a really bad person.

Answer 4

lame, get over it if it&#039;s just about the L*****n thing

if she&#039;s just generally not a nice person, maybe you need to let her know

Answer 5

just let her know you aren&#039;t comfortable with the situation and for reasons you cannot be friends with her, its not because you dont like her its just not something your ok with.

Answer 6

Are you sure. If you are and you are not comfortable with this then that is ok. Just slowly stop talking to her and do not sit w/ her.

If you just do not like her because your friends dont that is not fair for her. Just because someone does not have the same sexual orientation does not make them different from someone else.

   Ask yourself

If i did not know she was g*y, would i still be her friend  

Answer 7

ok hate for any reason is not good !But what you should do is just stop hanging around her slowly just stop and tell her you just do better off without having close friendships .All it takes is you to stop hanging with her .I do understand and wish you the best but remember you are your own boss and you decide what and who you are around .

Answer 8

So did you stop liking her before or after you found out she might be g*y?  She become your friend for some reason, and to turn her away because of one of her faults or something shows nothing wrong with her character, just shows that your superficial.  &quot;A friend is one who knows all your faults and likes you anyways. But hey if thats what you want to do, then do it, dont try to find justification so you can feel better about yourself.  Know its kinda harsh but life isnt meant to be easy.  Sorry.

Answer 9

If you are true friends assecpt her because shev is still your friien.i HAVE g*y FRIENDS AND THEY KNOW IM STREIGHT.Bu i have slept over at his house with no worries they stay to their own.STOPIT

Answer 10

if she is a L*****n, that&#039;s no reason to hate her. if she comes on to you despite the fact that you&#039;ve made it clear youre not interested and not g*y, that is a reason to not like her. if she is really your friend you wouldn&#039;t judge her based on her sexual orientation.

Answer 11

Just ask her if she is looking for the same s*x type! If she is then say you really don&#039;t feel comfortable around her that much! Sometimes you just have to say some things even if you don&#039;t want to!

Answer 12

so why don&#039;t you want to be her friend?  and you other friends should have NOTHING to do with it,  sorry but it sounds like you need to grow up!

Answer 13

Just kinda break away from her. That&#039;s what I did when this girl started following me around thinking that I was her friend. Just kinda ignore her and turn away from her to your other friends. That way you&#039;re breaking a friendship AND you&#039;re not telling her &quot;i don&#039;t like you&quot;

Answer 14

ok I&#039;ll give you advice but in my opinion i do think you are being a bit discrimanatory.

please ask yourself is the fact that she is a L*****n or you think she is the reason you dislike her?

I would advise you to speak to her, maybe you don&#039;t really have the same personality point out that you think your friendship has fizzled out and maybe there are people she would get along with better.

Good luck to both of you xD

Beth x*x

Answer 15

don&#039;t answer her calls; if she wants to make plans,just say your busy and can&#039;t do it. if you make yourself unavailable she will see you have grown apart and will move on.