I need sum advice about wat happened wit my best friend...?

Question

ok, this is wat happened: i got this strange voicemail from a witheld number so i called my best friend and sum boy who was talkin in the voicemail answered so i talked 2 him 4 a couple of mins but i hung up on him and then i called back and my best friend answered the phone but in the background the boy and 1 of my other friends from school were screamin "u ugly *** white *****" "u aint nothin but a ugly piece of ****" and other foul ****. me and her been best friends for 5 years and idk wat 2 do. i wrote her a text sayin 4 her not 2 hav nothin 2 do wit me and that i was done wit her but i gotta c her on monday at school and idk wat 2 do. shud u be friends wit her and my other friend from school 2??? wat shud i do??? plz help!!!!!!

Answer 1

U could always give her the benefit of the doubt but it doesn't sound like shes much of a friend to let that happen. You could try talking to her but maybe you should try and find knew friends that treat you with the respect you deserve.

Answer 2

i would say meet up with your bestie&&listen to what she has to say.

if she responds back with something really retarded- end your friendship.

as for that other friend, you don't need people like that in your life.

Answer 3

talk it over with ur firend first and find out what there intesions were there may be a story behind too why her and that guy were yellin a whole bunch of nonsence in the backround ,, but i relle think u jumped to conclusions wen u sed u neva wanna tlk to her agen i tinhk u shuld hear her side of the story.

Answer 4

Don't waist your time on her or them. Trust me they are just trying to show off and when they make fun of you they are jealous and it makes them feel better by making fun of you. At school just not talk to them no matter how hard it is then they will see that your not playing around and that you are serious. I have had best friends like this before that did the same exact thing to me, my mom and other friends kept telling me to forget about them and I finally did and I'm glad because i have done better without them. You will make new friends and better. But you could just always after while just start talking to her gradually and become friends but i wouldn't go back to bff's right away. Good luck!