I need super special help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

i have one dad and one mom right.my dad is cheating on my mom.to a very long time ago when this ''cheating'' thing started to happen. she started checking his emails.but that was like 10 or 15 years ago. but then yesterday my dad knows my moms friend knows this secret.so he started to check her emails to see if she told but there was no proof. but then he goes on saying your lying.and there is compelely no proof that she told her friend.and the worstest part is my dad might leave us with no money.and well end up being poor or something idk.

but is there any way i can friggin fix this.

Answer 1

Why should you?  This is your parents mess to deal with.  There is no reason why you, the child, should be so embroiled in their lives that you know who has had affairs, how long they have lasted and who has or has not been told.  

Both your parents are the prime example of how NOT to raise a family.  The best thing I would suggest for you is to understand that this is not how you want your future to turn out.  This is not how you treat a marriage, or a spouse.  When you get married and have kids you will behave in a manner becoming of a parent and a husband.  Your parents are selfish and immature.  They would rather play an endless game of 'Days of Our Lives' than raising their children.  

Good luck to you but don't place the war of your parents on your shoulders.

Answer 2

Hey!

   This is a toughy! Um, you need to sit down with your dad privitly and talk to him about what you have heard and seen. And if its getting really bad, i would tell your mom. But really, all you can do is remind your dad why he is married to your mom and why he loves her so much. Tell him that it hurst you that he is with someone other then your mom. This will touch his heart and make him think twice

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Answer 3

Nope, your parents will do what they want to do. Just know that your mom can always get help from the state if you need money.

Good Luck

Answer 4

your parents are immature and its not your fault !!

get educated, and get out as soon as possible.  Don't forget to write a note to parents for giving such a great childhood (NOT)...My prayers are with you !!

Answer 5

i'd say you are old enough for a talk with dad ... now cannot say how old you are ,, but if you are 17+ i'd sit with him and tell him that " you are setting a very bad example to me  do you want me to do like you ? "... and i'd sit with mom and tell her exactly how you feel about daddy leaving the house .

now if you are younger .. i'd sit with dad and ask him .. daddy .. do you love me ... cause i need a dad you are my role model and i cannot afford loosing you ... pls try to work things out ... but i also love mommy and cannot live her and i don't won't you to fight for stupid reasons you are both my parents and i need you both by me ..

good luck ..

Answer 6

tell ur dad to cop on he was in the wrong and he shuld just accept it remind him bcos of the cheating in a court u and ur mom r probably gonna end up better of any way

also remind him of how ur mom forgave him

and she can tell who she likes