I need the opinions of muslims about having a muslim boyfriend

Question

actually the thing is that there was a guy in my school who liked me and i like him...but then i came to a different country but we still just chat...the problem is as a muslim am i allowed to have a boyfriend.... i really like him...n we dun have anything between us except that we chat...what should i do.... i really am not getting it cuzzz i dun wana break the rules of my religion but also dont want to leave him...he sayss itzz my choice if i want to be with him,...and he really loves me

Answer 1

no

Answer 2

You just asked a question about this 20 minutes ago, have things changes?  Maybe you should go into the religious forums to ask for help.  There will be many there that can help you with this who understand the Muslim religion.

Answer 3

You are allowed to be friends, but in Islam u are not allowed to have a sexual relationship before marriage, so no kissing allowed. Because it will lead to other things and humans have weak self control so you could end up pregnant or something, thats why the rules are strict. They are the same for males and females. You just have to wait till you get married then u can do whatever you wish and u will be with a person u truly love and who loves you, both commited and loyal. Unlike a ''boyfriend'' who could break ur heart and just leave u or cheat on u etc.

if he really loves u he wont mind if u say u just want to be friends because love is so strong he can be patient.

good luck

tc