I need to get revenge on my brother?

Question

Everyday I see him, he punches me, kicks me, throws me to the ground. Last year whenever I came home, he would throw me to the ground and start kicking me. My parents won't do anything about it because my dad is at work and my mom is too weak to do anything at all. She has no control over him at all. My brother is twice the size of me and is going to be a senior. I am 15 and I am small and I can't do anything to protect myself. I have begged and begged my parents to do something but they are too weak to control him.

I want to be able to tell my brother I'm done ******* around and that he has to stop. I need a way to get back at him. Any ideas? He won't listen to me, every time he hurts me he laughs.

Please.

Answer 1

get him locked up, i know hes ur bro but a******s like that dont deserve a family.

Answer 2

ur brother has a problem and hes trying to make u do something to him like a nasty prank or something. he'll only use it to hurt u more.

what u gotta do is something he doesn't expect or like.

something like...

get "special" help for a "special needs" person.

or just learn how to tie knots and tie him to his bed or something. and keep him there every knight he hurts u.

i'm small too and get bullied like that by a group of ten older kids and my bike was stolen (my only way to get 4.2km to school) and i couldn't run away cause the week b4 i found out i'm not allowed to run cause a got a knee problem. the way i got rid of them was not to taunt or insult or attack them but to smile kindly and be nice (and get a whole heap of bigger friends)...

:)

Answer 3

tell him to stop or you will call the police. if he's 18, or nearing 18 he should really listen because assaulting a minor is no joking matter.

Answer 4

i would get all my friends and gang up on him. show him that ur not gonna be pushed around. if that dont work i would call the police

Answer 5

18004483000 the girls and boys town national help line

they will tell you what to do in this situation and a list of resouses to help you  

Answer 6

My cousin is the same way, although i am 17 (5 foot 1 inches) and he is 9 ( 4foot 5inches)...he is a very strong child and most of the time if i tell him to do something, he gets mad and starts trying to punch me! he has so much strength that most of the time he knocks me backwards!...usually i get back at him in other ways like embarrassing him in front of people. like if your brother has a girlfriend then you could metion it in front of her..or maybe even someone that he respects. He might think that his friends are impressed but i doubt that any of them would let some older guy beat on their little sisters. He should realize that guys are much stronger than girls, and that older brothers are suppose to protect there younger sisters instead of hurting them. Good Luck!  

Answer 7

look

something so small if you do ,you will never be beaten again

take self defence classes

learn how to deal with sizes ,,if he kicks you ,laugh and kick him between the legs:*IT WORKS HONEY TRUST ME IT HURTS LIKE h**l*

Answer 8

I'm really sorry your in such a bad situation, your brother seems like a nasty piece of work, to be honest some kind of silly revenge would not help. the best thing to do is go to the police just after he has beaten u so the marks are fresh, go to the police tell them everything if you feel like crying do, your tears will make him look even worse. He will be arrested a charged. just don't tell anyone you are going to the police just go!!

Answer 9

Call the police. And p**s on his toothbrush. x

Answer 10

The next time he beats you, film it and then hand the footage over to the police. He won't do it again.

Answer 11

I was in exactly the same problem as you when i was your age.  My parents didn't believe me and i had nowhere to turn to.

Looking back at that situation as an adult, my advice would be to ask your mum one more time to listen to you.  Tell her how serious this is.  If she still refuses to be the parent, i would ask to talk to someone at school.  It could be a trusted teacher or the school counsellor.  They will help you work through what else could be done next.  They may have a stronger word with your mother or may send a welfare person over to chat to the family, or they will refer it to the police to chat with them.  Either way, you have plenty of options which should be up to you to choose but please tell your mum how desperate you are feeling first.

I never did get heard or take it any further and unfortunately my brother and i dont speak as adults.  I understand now though that as a teenager he had problems i was unaware of and vented his frustrations out on me.  Telling somebody who listened may have helped us both out in the end.

Stay strong, stay firm but dont just keep quiet.  Good luck

Answer 12

Yes,you should get the Police involved next time.

Let him know your serious.

Answer 13

it may seem bad now but your brother is just trying to toughen you up. i know because i went through the same thing. what i did was join a sport and got big. my brother is still probably stronger than me but i can fight him on a much more even playing field. of course once i got bigger we dont really get into fights. But just for reference my brother was about 5'5 and around 200 when i was about 14. but then when i got older i had a growth spurt and transformed some of my fat into muscle. now i can pretty much hold my own with him ssince hes now about 5'8 and 160 while im more like 5'11 and 260. but if that seems like a lot of work or just not the way for you just try sitting your brother down and talking to him. your still family and you cant just rat him out to the police or go spouting off your problems to guidance counselors who will probably take him to the police. but if he persists or gets even more violent you may have to.

Answer 14

If you want some peace and quiet, slip him some sleeping pills. Then dress him in girl's clothes, take some pictures of him and put them on MySpace or similar. Make sure all his friends see these pictures.

With someone like this you have to use a tool they don't use at all - your mind.  

Answer 15

thats abuse! talk to your principal, the police, or another figure of authority. you can't live like that!  

Answer 16

Wow he is not mature at all..!!!

Answer 17

In this case I would get the police involved.

Also keep a dairy everytime he assults you - evidence.

Answer 18

Hiya babe i went threw that with my older bro,

he always wanted to show of in front of his pals .

Being a total ****.

he hit me from when i was 13 till i was 15, last time he hit me i called the police they asked if i wanted him chared or warned,

Got him warned he has never hit me since that night :-)

Im now 27 and he is 31 we r best m8,s.

I hope it all works out for you :-)

Answer 19

I don't understand how any human being can physically hurt another human being.. It's someones life they're messing around with.. A LIFE!!!!!

Tell him that you could have him done for assaulting a minor.. that's some scary s**t right there.. He should be looking after his younger brother and trying to help you through life, not making it worse for you! Good Luck x

Answer 20

sounds like he needs help.  if your parents will not listen or are unable to handle the situation, you could phone childline who will advise you.  also you could try talking to a school counsellor and perhaps arrange a meeting with your parents to discuss the situation.  as far as revenge is concerned, that would not be productive, it is a negative. seek help outside your family, i wish you luck.