I need to help my younger sister!?

Question

My sister is 10 and i'm 14. My sister is starting puberty and she is being a total B****. I know that she can't help it but she is treating me like i am the little 10 year old and she's the teenager.

I try talking to her about it. But it is hard because she is caught up on looks and she wears short skirts and she talks to her friends about having s*x and stuff. I don't want my sister to get caught up in boys and appearances at such a young age. What can i do to help her.

Oh...don't tell me to talk to my mom. Cuz my sister forged my dad's signature and then when my mom asked her she lied about it. My mom found out she lied and just told her to tell my mom next time she has forges a parent signature. Is it just me or does that seem wrong?

My mom gets mad at me for little things and my sister gets away with forging signatures, and dressing older. Please help me! I don't go if it is just me making a big deal, or if it is really important.

Answer 1

Monique says- You should slap that *****. And tell her whats right and wrong. Cough*Cough* Sounds like a s**t.

Answer 2

my sister was the same way and if you dont have any other siblings your moms probably freaking out cause her 'baby's' getting older. but as your sister goes sit her down and tell her shes being ridiculous and that your just trying to keep her safe that YOUVE already been through it and know what its like. hope this helpsss

Answer 3

It is a stage but in order for her to get out of it you need to talk to her. Schedule time for girl talk one on one. Go swimming or biking or running but spending time with her will keep her out of trouble and let her know she can trust you.

Answer 4

well just don´t worry about her even if she is your sister. if your mom is not caring about what she does then okay because in the future your mom will regret not pay attention to her.

Answer 5

Tell her what you feel. Say you think she looks like a s**t. Ask some of your guy friends to say something to her. One of your really close guy friends. Ask him to tell her that guys aren't really into that.  

Answer 6

If i were you, i would let your sister find out the hard way. Let her learn by herself.

Answer 7

I am only 12 1/2 and going to be 13 in 2 and a 1/2 I never acted like that try to talk to her or let her learn from her mistakes. Talk to her about s*x and stuff.  

Answer 8

have an all girls day. take her out and get pedicures, go to lunch with her, go shopping or see a girlie movie. show her how much fun it is to be a kid.  

Answer 9

Well you know what I have the same issue with my sister but on a lesser scale. She is 14 and I am 19 and at that age of 10 in today's society you have to keep a close eye on her. I know this sounds lame but you have to keep talking to her and dont talk down to her(BIG mistake) until you are blue in the face. I know it doesnt seem like it will ehlp but I did the same thing and I see my sister utilizing some of the stuff I told her about. And I know this is extreme but if you have to get physical with her to make her understand she is still a Kid do it with in your means. May just shake her one good time so that she knows you have her BEST interest at heart and if your mom comes down on you well thats when you need to have an Adult conversation with your mom and tell her that she does NOT know her 10 year old and needs to help you Parent her because you are feeling like the parent NOT the Big sis!! I hope this helps you and good luck becasue I dont want to see her on the Maury Polvaich!! Good Luck

Answer 10

that means she's only in 3rd or 4th grade, wow.

Tell her that way she dresses isn't appropriate for her age, and remind her that she is not a woman, not even a teenager.  

Answer 11

i would let her hang out with you and your friends so she can see how older girls really act not how she thinks they act. Maybe next time you go shopping with your friends invite her to come along too