I need to know a fun party that 13 year olds would love around 35 - 45 people?

Question

Please help,

not too expensive and no beach partis.

something that a lot of people usually dont have

pleassee helppp!

thx

Answer 1

You should do a paint ball party. It's not that expensive! OR you could do a chef party! Where u can make ur own "master pieces", or u can do a total game party.Girls against boys? You can do rock-climbing, treasure hunt, water game... OOH! I THOUGHT OF A GREAT ONE! WE DID THIS AT MY FRIENDS' BIRTHDAY AT THE CLEARWATER BAY AND GOLF COUNTRY CLUB! Get a large cylinder box made out of plastic. Punch small holes in them big enough for water to come out. Get two of those. Split into 2 groups. Drop a ping pong ball inside. tell everyone that they have to get the ping pong ball out JUST by using the water to float it up. A TEAM WILL BE DISQUALIFIED IF SOMEONE REACHES IN! BEWARE! THE WATER WILL SPROUT OUT, SO IT WILL BE VERY HARD!

p.s my team won 2 times out of 2 games. it's real fuN!

Answer 2

i would say bowling or a movie, with the usual

Answer 3

I think you should have a awesome dance party! Invite enough boys and enough girls to all have a dance partner and then you all dance to music! and maybe some cake and ice cream and a movie!

Answer 4

Someone said skating. i am 14 AND LOVE TO SKATE!! just thought i would say thaat.

Answer 5

just let them hang out and do anything they want.

Answer 6

Water-Gun Party is a Winner

My in-laws just threw a "Water-gun party" AKA Water-gun fight. About 50 people showed up with water-bazookas and Super-soakers. They filled some large tubs of water up, divided us into two teams. Mom-in-law cut up some fabric strips to use as armbands) and told us one team had to defend this area of the property, and the other team had to get the others off that area of the property. When the water ran out of the tubs, the game was over. We filled the tubs up twice. I'm not sure if anybody actually *won* but everybody had a great time. Then we ate hotdogs & potato chips. Very inexpensive, everybody brings their own gun and their own towel. The senior citizens loved it as much as the teenage boys did.

Birthday "Survivor" Party

I was in the same position for my teenage daughter about to turn 15. The idea we came up with was Survivor. I don't know if they broadcast the Survivor series in Australia, but the series was filmed in the Outback last year. For those unfamiliar with it, 16 people are "stranded" somewhere in the world (an island was one setting and the Outback for another) and have to face challenges to stay. They are divided up into two tribes that eventually merge when only a few people are left in each tribe. People who are unable to meet the challenges and work with their teammates are voted off the show. The ultimate survivor wins a million dollars.

Anyway, the invitation challenged her friends to face the "terrors" of her 15th birthday party and be the ultimate party survivor. We used inexpensive island-theme stationary for the invitations and put bug stickers all over them for added silliness. She named her two tribes Poopanella and Scaramunga. When the tribes merged, they became Unga-Bunga. Both tribes had rubber chicken mascots that they had to "hunt" for in the first challenge. They named one chicken Hugh and the other Jass so that when the tribes merged, the chicken names would merge as well, and become one (well, you can figure that one out!).

I found leopard skin print fabric in wild colors in the bargain rack of the local fabric store and made bandanas for both tribes. I made a dozen cool bandanas and had enough leftover fabric for decorations, tablecloths, plate and basket liners for munchies, etc. I only spent $4 for the fabric and the place looked totally wild and tropical. Even the rubber chickens had their own little bandanas. The bandanas were also party favors and the kids loved them. Water bottles are another party favor idea that we didn't do, but if you can find them cheaply in different colors, that would be a good favor as well. We requested on the invitation that they bring water bottles and good sneakers.

We live in the woods, so we were able to set up a campfire for tribal council meetings. If you don't have a big wooded backyard, check with local state parks or the parks and recreation dept. in your area and see where you can have an outdoor party. Evenings are best, as it adds to the drama of the setting. We had tiki torches with bug repellant around the yard and tribal council site.

We found the Survivor soundtrack and played that all evening. The soundtrack was also a gift for my daughter, who likes that kind of music (African drums and jungle sounds).

For challenges, we had the kids hunt for their chicken dinner (a silly relay race while carrying a rubber chicken). We also had them skin and eat stickyfish (an island delicacy!). Basically, they had to see who could unwrap and eat as much salt-water taffy as possible in two minutes. Use caution with kids with braces, as it may be a problem.

They also had to fish for shark's eggs. We took Gummi sharks, put them in plastic Easter eggs and had them fish them out of pans of water with just bare feet while blindfolded. I made it more challenging by adding ice to the water.

Another challenge involved a battle of wits. They all sat around the fire and everyone had to come up with questions about my daughter that had to be answered correctly to win. One example was what was a nickname she had given to a local mall. All the kids came up with different questions that were really creative and funny (how old she was when she was finally potty-trained, etc).

The final challenge took place right after we sang "Happy Birthday". They had to find the tarantula in their dirt pudding. I made dirt cake cups with Gummi worms (recipe at the end) and hid a big Gummi tarantula in one of them. Whoever found it, won. The ultimate survivor won a rubber chicken. For singing "Happy Birthday", I just put a birthday candle in my daughter's cup and made sure she didn't get the one with the spider to make things fair. She was a real good sport about it and made sure she didn't win any challenges to make it fair to her friends.

After each challenge, the losing team had to "vote" one member off. I made sure at the beginning of the party that no feelings would be hurt. Another option for this would be just to have points awarded to each team and use the dirt pudding challenge to determine the ultimate survivor. The kids all got into the spirit of it, and were practically volunteering to be voted out. Everyone got to participate in each challenge, even if they had been voted out. The immunity idol that went to the winning tribe was this stupid looking plastic bobble-headed tiki god. We awarded that to the runner-up.

After all the challenges, they used the rest of the marshmallows and made s'mores with them. I served them munchies and sodas or juice, but they weren't too hungry after eating salt-water taffy, marshmallows and dirt cake! They enjoyed sitting around the fire and listening to music until their parents came. The party was three hours long, but they wished it had been longer. They all told us it was the best party they had been to, and it was the talk of the school for a long time afterwards. Kids were coming up to my daughter and asking to be invited to her next birthday. They told me they wanted a Survivor reunion next year.

I played the host of the survivor games, so I got to closely supervise the kids. They enjoyed it so much; they invited me to join them around the fire. In all, it was about three hours of unbridled hilarity. My daughter and I had a blast planning it and it seemed like the sillier and stupider it got, the more the kids loved it. The challenges were just old party games that were given a new twist as challenges. We laughed for weeks planning it out. I think we enjoyed planning it as much as the party itself. My daughter really got into planning it and came up with many of the challenges. The only condition I placed on it, was that it had to be good and silly.

I think when you get the kids involved, you increase the chance for success. After all, it's their party and not yours. The most important thing is to relax and enjoy the whole process from beginning to end. Make it silly and get your son involved as much as possible. I don't know why birthday parties are so stressful these days. Sometimes the simplest and most old-fashioned ideas work the best. Overall, I didn't spend more than $50 on the whole party (including decorations, food and gifts), and we had a lot of teenagers there. The biggest expense was soda and snacks. I would buy an extra bag of chips and a bottle of soda each week for several weeks before the party so it wouldn't be such a big expense at one time. Having some of the challenges involve eating and having to use water bottles during the challenges cut down on the number of munchies that were eaten as well, which saved money. The bandanas were a big hit. The kids were all impressed that they were handmade. I just made fabric squares and hemmed them. I used my husband's bandana as a template. Not only were they great favors, they were an important prop in the party. The rubber chickens were a huge hit and took on a life of their own as tribe members. The winning chicken was paraded around the yard in a victory dance.

Answer 7

Okay so i loved going skating for b-day partys... when i was in 3rd grade of course=]

Shes 13 now im sure she or he would just like to hang out in a room possibly some movies.. make some pizzas.... have fun maybe go outside and run around every party i ever had when i was 13 was like that.. and every party i went to.. they are so much fun and u get way closer to them then you woulld if uu were to go out to eat.. or somthing.

Answer 8

35 to 45 people is too many, cut it

down to about 10 Girls & 10 Boys

Order some Pizza, Soda, Chips and

Chicken Wings, Put on some music,

and Dance the night away, or play

some Games of thier choice. Have Fun.