I need to know how to control this.

Question

I really like this girl so of course I think she's beautiful. But sometimes when we're at the pool and I'm holding her I get hard, then i get embarrassed and its hard to talk to her and I don't hold her cuz I don't want her to know, so how do I kill/control my erection?

Answer 1

m********e right before u see her ur lesslikly to get hard  

Answer 2

well i wouldnt do anything but let it be hard after all its showing you love her.

Answer 3

try thinking of some thing way off, like dead puppies.

Answer 4

This is a tough one , cuz yur glad that yur body likes her and you don't want to train it to malfuntion and not work this way, and yet you don't want it obvious.

Sounds silly but I tried ignoring it and risking the outcome! Yup! It showed her how much it liked her, and she was kind and gracious. She just looked, appreciated, and took hold of my hand. It was such a good feeling of freedom after and such a dropping of fears and self concious.

It became a normal thing for us after, and she just got to love me more and more. We both wear a ring on our left hand now, and it's the one that we gave to each other 2 years ago while we said some "I do" kind of words. Hahaha!

It's funny how we humans are the only creatures that have such a rough time accepting our own, and others normal healthy sexuality.

Good luck Dude

Me! :- )

Answer 5

This sounds odd but let her feel the erection then she will know your attracted to her so she will understand

Answer 6

Well everyone here says you should m********e,that's probably a good idea cause trust me i get erections around people for no reason and it's very uncomftorable.So m********e before you see her.Be glad you get erections when you don't want to cause when you're older,you are gonna wish you got ***** every second.

Answer 7

flick your right nut and say down simba...it seriously works... i do it all the time

Answer 8

m********e right before you see her. Just try to focus on something else besides her body when you're with her.

personally i wouldn't mind a guy getting hard when he's around me. I might be a little more likely to give some but that's just me

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Answer 9

Just tell her you find her attractive. As does your walking stick. Or just say: "it's a gentleman. It stands up whenever there's a lady around". Something like that. It's normal.

Answer 10

just dont think about it. If she really loves you she would understand. just tell her it happens when guys are really in love!

Answer 11

well jack-off before you see her and  if that don't work m********e more  until it doesn't get a ***** (it will help I'm sure cause it help for me)