I need to know i am seeing him in one week? Help?

Question

my ex and i were trying to be friends but, this all too complicated for me and too hurtful. he left me in july for another woman. the thing is he acts funny around me. he begged me in aug to spend the week in his city. we live 5 hrs. apart. and i did but only cause i also fell in love with his city and i plan to move there. yes i do still care for this man. well the whole week he was either snapping at me or kissing me wanting me to hold him in my arms and joke with him. he took me to a 50 dollar dinner to tell me that half of him wants me back in his life the other is tired of hurting me. he even showed me off to his friends. well when we got back stupid me asked him what we are. and he asked me back i said i wanted to give it another shot. he kept saying that he has all these feelings for me that he can't deny but that we can't act on them and he is with her and he is moving in with her. so i get a job in his city and he calls me all excited saying he is going to have to help find me an apartment. ok, well i get offered an even better job only prob is they wanted me immediatley. i asked all my friends what i should do. he goes off the deep end asking stupid ?'s like is this job legit and who is this guy? than texts oh this job is close to where i will be staying at.... in ?.... she lives in ? wtf?!

Answer 1

being a phycopathic stocker!!

stay clear of him!

seriously.

Answer 2

he just wants the best of both worlds, he doesnt want to give up either you or his other girl. sounds like both of you are eating out of his hand so he really has no pressure to pick one... you're willing to go along with it. find a guy who can make a commitment to one person. or he will always be cheating on you