I need to learn to pleasure him better...?

Question

i have a very good marriage of 19 yrs. now. hubby never complains and seems happy enough with our s*x life...

in fact, he's much more conservative than i am...

and i feel like i've been holding back on my fantasies for his sake..

don't want tto turn him off or scare him...i've done that before...

so any suggestions on how i can spice up our love life? i'll do anything but the 3rd person thing...or the back door thing...

other than that? anything goes...

any guys have any thoughts?

Answer 1

After 19yrs you should be able to talk to him....He has some thoughts too....whisper in his ear while your riding him. Start slow!!!!

I would love that my wife is conservative unless shes had a drink and then....OOOOHHHH BOY;-}

Answer 2

good for you to not be tempted to cheat congradulate you on that first of all. Second I would talk to him about you guys s*x life. Ask him questions in how he could be pleasured more. Also I would wear good perfume on romantic days and dress s**y. Ask him other questions about what he finds seductive. Maybe the s*x styles needs to be changed or enhanced.  

Answer 3

You need to ease into new things so he won't wonder where you are learning these new techniques.  I am sure being more into oral would be good for him and he might reciprocate for your enjoyment too.  It is nice that you want to try so hard to please him.  Just have fun with it and I am sure he will be coming back for more.  You also might try some different positions like reverse cowgirl where you are on top facing away from him.  That will leave you in control and he will love it.  Good luck and happy lovemaking.