I need to leave my husband what do I do first call a lawyer or what?

Question

move things, he is driving me crazy, not working I work he wont leave me alone follows my every move. I cant even play cyber s*x online. he wont give it to me. he talks to girls all the time lies drinks I have no life he likes it that way.

Answer 1

hi barbi ,whats cyber s*x , id love to know?

Answer 2

call a lower first

Answer 3

Run to Hollywood CA. I'll get you some small movie gigs and you can rest and think out what you need to do at ease

Answer 4

just pack your bags and tell him your leaving him or if he scares you at night or when his at work pack your bag .just write him a note and leave him make sure your prepared on where your going to go and stuff.then you can have all the cyber s*x you want. yummy

Answer 5

ur husband sounds like a controll freak.. and probably has issues..so

my best advice to you is to get out of ur house.. take your most

precious things when he is not there. and go to a close relative or

friends house if you can... then talk to ur lawyer and tell him that

u want to divorce ur husband... and to make an arrangement

for you to pick up the rest of your stuff withour him there, with a restraining order... make sure ur husband doesnt know where you

are and leave when he is not home...

do the above only if he is violent. if not

then try to work things out first or atleast

tell him that ur leaving him for the reasons u

described

Answer 6

well im open for some cyber, but to answer your question file for divorce first and if getting a lawyer is in your best interest then by all means get one but basically its pretty self explanatory. I filed twice now,you need to take your lawyer money and move into a hotel until you find a place or vice versa.  

Answer 7

All youneed to do is call the police tell them you need a restraining order , You have been threatened, and need protection order under 273.5 domestic violence on cohabitant or spouse. Even if He hasnt hit you the controlling manipulative pedantic treatment in itself is abuse. There are more types of abuse that fall under the umbrella of 273.5  A user who is reliant will not and mostlikely could not leave you or HE WOULD BE FORCED TO GROW UP ETC! hE WILL BE FORCED TO VACATE FOR MIN 6 MONTHS at which time you may renew . all 273.5 protective orders remain in effect until ordered otherwise!! regardless if DA requests cotinuance of protective order ! This is the only way to insure He is GONE FOR GOOD.He will attend classes to educate himas tothe cycle of violence and controlling behaviors is a major issue with abusers, Not one typically rectified overnight! GOOD LUCK!  Blaquewraith

Answer 8

You need to talk to a lawyer and get a restraining order to keep him away

Answer 9

Call a lawyer and make sure you have people there as witnesses and protection when you get your stuff out of there.  

Answer 10

Drama queen.....just step AWAY from the PC and go to bed.

Thank you.

Answer 11

Barbi, he is not working.  What good will a lawyer do you?  Now down to business: start moving out on him.  Leave and don't answer the phone to him.

Start a new life, cause he's not going to get better.  Women make life too easy for men.  s*x, money, and everything they want.  No matter they, (men) walk all over us.

Answer 12

First walk out the door, then figure out your next move.

Answer 13

Cyber s*x...wow..what's your contact?? Joking !

Leave him, because you shouldn't have to resort to cyber s*x.This relationship is really bad for you. You are not getting the attention a woman deserves.

Answer 14

u and him need to get away alone and share you kinky fantasies together.  talk to him. if u two love each other then there is hope.  alot of us grow apart and we get our own kinky desires and do not share w/ our lover and the whole time they have the same desires.  it is either make or break at this point and u both need to step up to the plate and try to work it out w/ each other and not the rest of us.  communication is wonderful.  if he is following u around well then he does love u and is probably getting so desperate of the thought of losing u to another man. (we all get desperate one time in our lives)if u r hiding behind something u need to come out and bring it to his attention. if his not working is bother u then u need to talk about it.

it sounds to me like the fire is still kindling so u need to spark it up again and give this another shot.  If the love is completely gone then no sense in making each other miserable but it is something u really need to think about---is starting over what u really want? talk to your heart (the answer is there)

Answer 15

If that is what you feel then you need to file for divorce.

Retain a lawyer, get out of the house and begin the process.

I hope all goes well for you, just remember this next time you choose a companion.  

Answer 16

you will have to contact a lawyer first.  That way he can give you sound advice as to how to go about getting out of the situation with the least amount of loss.  good luck.

Answer 17

Careful you need to be really cold making those decisions you cand leave just like that, call your lawyer for a fast advise. If you have a green to go then go. Make shure this is really what you want.

Answer 18

I would for sure call a lawyer.  Find a place to live and get out of there.