I have been with the wife for 15 years, during that time we split up for 6 months and got back together again we realised soon after she was pregnant. The "Sperm Donner" wanted nothing to do with her and demanded she abort the pregnancy. He refused to sign the birth certificate and nobody knows were he is, although i can not say i am bothered. I dont know or want to know who he is. My daughter is now 5 and unaware i am not her biological dad. I will be adopting her in a few years, but i want her to agree to it. We are in the processes of changing her name by deed poll, but she thinks her surname is the same as ours anyway. I don't believe i should keep it seceret but think i should start allowing her to understand about adoption and step parents etc so when i do tell her she understands better., i don't want her to live her life a lie and resent us for it in the future. She now has a little brother and sister and i dont want her to resent them either. HELP!!
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