I need ways to tolerate my fiance's brothers rude and mean girlfriend?

Question

Help. She is horrible. She is rude to people. She talks down to us, calls my fiances parents names, is rude to them, is very competitive and slights us in ways to try to make us feel like c**p. She is really not a good person at all. Everything has to be about her and she is very selfish and even treats my fiances brother(her boyfriend like c**p). The truth is they will probabloy end up together. I need ways to try to put up with her because everytime I think about it I get so angry and this rage bubbles up in me. I just might blow up at her soon, now while that will feel great to give her a taste of her own medicine, it wont get rid of the problem. (her). I am just so sick of her treating everyone the way she does. I am not looking for ways to like her or to get past her bullcrap, because I have tried and she is still a pill because she thinks she is better than everyone. I just need a way to calm my rage and to stand my ground at the same time. help!

Answer 1

I agree with Mrs. B.

Answer 2

I would just be as polite to her as you can possibly be.  Especially when you are around others, and try not to be alone with her if at all possible.  I mean, be sickeningly sweet.  For example:  She says to you "I really don't like that skirt you have on.  It has to be the ugliest thing I have ever seen!"  You say to her with a smile "I'm so glad that you shared your opinion with me.  Maybe for my birthday you could buy me a skirt that you think I should wear?"  And then wear the skirt she hates every time you know you are going to be around her!  LOL

Answer 3

just  try  get  along

Answer 4

Spend as little time as possible w/ them, and they'll eventually get the point.  When you are with them, kill with kindness.  When she sees she can't get a reaction out of you anymore, she eventually give up being so rude.  She probably does it for attention.

Good luck!