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I had this psychologist, Mia. Throughout the entirety of my life, I have been disconnected from others, I have a life of duality. I never say what I want, I never let anyone know what I am really like, and I never act like myself around others. I went there, and she understood me, I would tell her things, opinions and whatnot, and she would be able to tell how I was feeling (even though I was hiding it.) She was nice, helpful, and she was one of the first people I ever knew that truly understood me. I have been forced by unexpected circumstances to relocate, and I don't know what I'll do without her help. I miss it even now, having someone I can talk to without having to keep up a charade. I need your help, you guys here at yahoo answers have given me some pretty good advice before (on another account) and I really need it now. I just feel terrible.....

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  1. yep i can see where your comin from, im the same i always put a front on and that, i dont want people to know what im really feel.

    because people know me as that funny person that says the most funny things when someone askes a serious question, well i always want people to think that of me. because it couold lead to people not liking me if u showed them the real me if u wanna say lol.

    And im sorry about your situtation with psychologist, i dont know what i can really suggest, maybe give someone else a try that can help you. all you need to do is click with that person to be able to talk like you could with your old psychologist.


  2. Well first off, if your friends will ridicule you, they're not your friends.  Family, you can't help, most of the time family will find something to badger you about.

    "Be yourself" sounds like pretty good advice, it may be hard, but you might just have to fill your life with people like Mia.  

    People who belittle you or ridicule you are really not worthy of having around anyways.  Why live a secret, to protect yourself from others?

    Everyone in the world, is ridiculed in some way for the way they are, the way they live, the way they look, something.  It's your job to find people who will accept you as you are, as Mia has, and let them fill your life with love and happiness.

    I know it may be hard to let people go, but really, if you can't be yourself around them, you're just wasting your time, and lying and fronting to them.

    :) good luck, I really hope you look for people who will love you regardless.

    PS. several people who are currently in your life will probably accept whatever it is that you feel they will find unacceptable.  It's dangerous to presume that other people are unaccepting and will not care for you enough to be with the real you.

  3. What's the question ?

    Please explain a bit what kind of help you expect to receive from us?
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