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I need your help please answer me?

I'm so worry, I had a Baby on April 3, 2008 , I was 5 months pregnant when I loose my baby my cervix open, and the Dr's couldn't do anything to save my baby's life , after that I stared taking birth control pills and on June 30 I stop taking the bc pills , and my last period was on July 8 , but until now I haven't had a period, I did a few pregnancy test all of them came back negative, but I want to know why I haven't have a period has any body being trough this?, I want to know if I may be pregnant so I can to take care of my self, I don't want to go trough the same thing I went when I loose my first baby, it will be so hard to go trough the same thing again , please I need your help, what do you thing is happening, I be waiting for your answers Thank you, I forgot to mention I went to the dr and he told me to wait another week and do another pregnancy test and if comes back negative he will send me to do a blood test, but until that happen I need your advise and see if any body is being through the same thing as me, I forgot to say, some time last week, about 4 days ago, I was having a lot of discharge I don't know wat it was it was a lot of mucous from down there, like when you ovulate like that but I have ever see so much in my life so much coming out from down there, do you ever have so much mucous coming out of you. Please answer me, I'll be waitting thankyou

Answer 1

Sounds like you are in quite a predicament.Go see a Gynacologist. Especially, when the symptons are persistant. Medical Docters and clinics perform a blood test, take urine, and even excretion, which usually tells more about your body's status than a simple drugstore test. Be clear about your symptom's too. Now, not to frighten you, it might also be cysts, more than likely benign. You should also visit an official medical website and do some research. This helps your doctor a great deal in figuring out, what exactly is going on. Hope this helps and do not be afraid.

Answer 2

I would hope that you are already "taking care" of yourself.  You have been through a lot.  I never realized how many women have miscarriages until I had one.  I was 5 months pregnant too.  Many women told me of their story of miscarriage.  It gets better, time heals wounds.  I believe God takes care of all babies, and there is a reason for everything, that only He knows.

The mucous is probably normal, and a lot has happened down there, so it might be different for a while.  I know that Doctors want you to wait at least a year after a miscarraige before getting pregnant again, just to heal, and get over the loss.  

If you were taking the pill as directed, you are probably not pregnant.  But remember no birth control method is 100%.  Please take care of yourself as though you were pregnant, (i.e. no drinking, smoking, etc.) until you know for sure.