I need your help with a drama problem please???

Question

well, heres the story.......Me n my friend me met a guy while camping and she started to like him. On the third day there he asked her out with alot of my help. They have been dating for about a month and i have built a strong friendship with the dude. Through the whole process, he has had doubts about staying with her and i always turned him around. Except now its big.....

1] she has another guy as her first person on myspace outa nowhere

2] she always talkin bout her EXs to get him jelous

3]alot more

I dont know wat to say any more and i really need advice to tell him before he goes to sleep so hurry please!!!

Answer 1

why are you worried is not clear?

Answer 2

well i think u should tell him what u think because then its all going to come back to you it might seem hard but thats the best thing to do at this moments

Answer 3

First confront your your friend about the situation and if she refuses to be honest with him then you should tell him  

Answer 4

You are way to involved in their relationship. Helping him ask her out is one thing, but after a month of dating, they should work their problems out on their own. I'm not saying you're to blame, maybe they kind of dragged you into it, but maybe you'll be relieved if you took a step back and let them clean up their own mess. Why do you feel you are obliged to do something to fix THEIR problems?

Did he talk to her about what bothers him?

Answer 5

why do you want him to stay with her so bad?  

Answer 6

It sounds like your secretly inlove with this guy!

And if not....you need to get your loyalities straight! And choose a side.  You cant be on both sides,  your either there as a friend to her or a friend to him.....if you cant choose then i suggest you stay out of it and let them make their own mistakes cause if she finds out & she will that you have been tipping him off about her going's on etc or been the shoulder he has been crying on she wont appreciate it!  It doesn't matter weather you helped set the relationship up at the beginning.  My advice is to stay out of it because you very well may lose them both as friends!